Original Guru of Good Game
Original Guru of Good Game

Episode · 1 year ago

What you Want vs What you Need

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Today's episode is about "What you Want vs What you Need"I give a little background on myself of this subject What I wanted compared to what I needed and how I found out what I truly needed.

Welcome to another exciting episode of the Og of good game with your host zero game. On today's episode we are going to talk about what you need versus what you want. Let's get into that hot topic right now. Thanks for joining me. A Ken on, the original Guru of good game. This is your host, a zero game, or you can call me zero G, or you can call me zero, or you can call me Zg,...

...or you can just call me Z doesn't matter. I will respond to them all and once again, I would like to say thank you very much for all of the downloads, follow the likes, fallow shares, all the comments. Really do appreciate it. I don't know how to put it exactly in the words what I'm feeling for all of the love and kindness I've been receiving, but I just want to say that I really do appreciate everything and I really do appreciate y'all coming on this journey with me, as I talk a bunch of Shit. Anyway, today we are on the what you need versus what you want. Now I decided to get into this subject only because I believe a lot of people. I'm speak from experience for myself, but I believe a lot of people are confused between what you want and what you need, and I think that's something that we need to touch on. The help people learn what you want from what you need, so you would stop going...

...after things that are not good for you and passing by all of the things that are good for you because it doesn't reflect your fantasy image of what you want compared to reality what you need. We gonna get started on that and we gonna first, I want to get you a little background on myself. I had this problem for years, years, I'm telling you, you know, when I was a little shorty growing up, all the things that I wanted. Wanted to be rich, wanted to be famous, I wanted a big fancy car, I wanted a big old fancy house with a pool and tennis court and Basketball Court, outdoor sauna and all that other shit you buy when you get rich, or least that's the stuff you think you want. I wanted to fancy clothes, I wanted the expensive jewelry, I wanted to fancy car, wanted to big, lustrious house with the big sprawling landscape,...

...with all that other shit that I was going to be paying for out the ASS to maintain and keep. I thought that's what I wanted and I actively went after it. Busted my ass trying to get it. Went through a lot of ups and downs, did some things that I wished I wouldn't have done, because I'm not proud of what I did in my pursuit of what I thought I wanted. Even with women, I made the mistake going after what I wanted instead of what I needed. What I wanted was a woman who was five feet to five five, hundred and twenty two, maybe a hundred and thirty, maybe forty pounds, thirty six, see to Forty d breast, Nice little small, twenty four, twenty six inch Waiste, thirty eight to forty inch hips, pick round, fat basketball shape booty, some nice supple thighs with little muscles in them that got them little sexy lines when she walk some big DSL Lips. And in case you wondering what DSL is,...

...growing up, that's a slang that we used to use, you know, especially when you was African American and you had really big lips. They said you had some DSL, especially on a woman, and at first I ain't know what the hell at me. And when I was a shorty, people saying all them slang things. I did not know what that mean and in my brother, you know, he pulled me to the side say Yo, DSL stands for Dick Sucking Lips, and in the men case, it will see ourselves click sucking lips or ts lves TWAT sucking lips, depending on how to woman categorizes what you want sucked on either to clip or the Twat or all of it. But that's a whole other conversation we going to have on a later date and on a different episode. Right now, we going to stick to what we want compared to what we need now. See, that's what I thought I wanted and you know I actively pursued it. Are we trying to go after the pretty girl with the pretty face to big Dick Sucking Lips, pretty eyes, two nice hair, big boob, small ways,...

...fat booty, all that stuff I thought I wanted? Not Don't get me wrong, ain't a damn thing wrong with none of that. Nothing. There's nothing wrong with it, not a thing. But you have to put this shit in perspective and you have to look at it as a whole and not just its individual parts. And unfortunately, especially with men, we tend to look at things at their individual parts instead of looking at them as a whole, and lately a lot of women have starting to make that same mistake, where you looking at a man for his individual parts and not looking at him as a whole. So that's one thing we need to work on, is up looking at things for the individual appeal and look at it for its overall use function and whether it will enhance your life or just be another weight on your shoulders as you trying to walk the road of life and do your life thing and have a nice life and all of that. That's not dependent...

...on what you want. It's more dependent on what you need and what I found out later in life, and as I learned that what I needed and what I wanted was two different things. Now, when I finally figured this out and I went after what I wanted after it took me a while to realize what I wanted, and that was the journey, and sometimes we make it harder on ourselves when we don't have to. How do you figure out these two for me it was simple. What I wanted was superficial, what I needed was substantial, and what I needed was somebody who cared about me, somebody to actually love me, somebody to actually like to have me around, somebody that would treat me with respect and kindness and generosity, somebody did gave a damn about how I felt and what I thought and, you know, look for in life and what I wanted to do in life. Somebody to actually pay that shit some attention. That's what I needed. Now,...

...if it's wrapped in that right package, Oh that's just gravy on the biscuit. But if none it if you not getting any of that, you get the looks, you getting the booty, you getting the booze or, if you a lady, you getting six pack, you getting a handsome face, you getting a big Dick, but all the other stuff you not getting. You have to look at the whole package and not just a percentage of the package. See that way, you always end up in a better position than you was if you just went for the superficial. Now, I know people say, oh well, that's common known. That's common knowledge. People should know that by now. Surprisingly enough, as smart as we humans claim we are, a lot of us is stupid enough to get fall into that trap. Why? We get blinded by the book beauty, and that goes for men and women. We all get blinded by the beauty and for men lately has been getting blinded by the booty. If the booty right, you forget every damn thing else about her. In the ladies is starting to get blinded by the bulge, if it's a big bold sitting up there, and hey,...

...the hell with the rest of them, long as I can get that bold out. That's kind of superficial. Will fuck you up. Often thought that I needed a fancy car. You know, I was determined when I was in high school. I was determined I'm getting a BMW, seven thirty five Nice Rims, all that other shit. Spent a good period of that part of my life doing a whole lot of illegal shit trying to get it and end up never getting it and only realize later on in life that was just a waste of my time, my effort, my mentality, my emotional stability, because all that shit I went chasing after it turns out wasn't worth it. Really wasn't worth it, because if you look at it, what's the difference between a BMW and a Chevy? The can name the corners they put on the offenders and shit. Both of them are still cars, four wheels, engine, transmission, drive train and all that other shit. Both...

...of them speed down the roll, both of them take gas, both of them will fuck up if you hit a pothole. Both of them require you to do maintenance. So what's the difference? The name in the look. That's it. That's all you paying for. You paying for a name and you paying for a look. Now people say, oh well, I'm paying for the luxury of the car, so that's what you paying for. You paying for what US soft leather compared to cloth. You paying for a Wood Grain Dashboard compared to one that's as simulated wood grain. It's still plastic, it's still a seat. Doesn't make any difference whether it's cloth whether it's leather. Is still something you want. Have to put your ass on and put the seat belt on in order to operate the car. So what difference does it make whether it is you paying for luxury or you paying for use function? I rather buy a card is going to do something for me and help me earn a few dollars, then buy damn card. That only thing I...

...can do is spend money to maintain it and look flying, or I look fly in my car, costing me an ass on the leg to maintain it and keep it up. But I look fly in my car, got forbid it break down, I got to wait for parts to be ordered in, imported into the country, if they don't have any on hand. That's just too much your headache. Why bother with the headache? Move on, simplify your life, take out all of the complications, and one way to doing that is by stop chasing after these fantasies you had as a kid and grow the fuck up and pay attention and evaluate what you need to live your life. That's more important than some shit that make you laugh and smile and get people to go to all for quick minute and then you back to sitting at home with your fancy car, your fancy home, you fancy cold, but you can't trust anybody who around you because you don't know if they did are because they actually give a damn about you, or if they just care about your shit and what you can do for so you need to separate what you...

...need versus what you want. That I'm going to leave as an open in topic here, and the reason why I'm leaving this opening is because I want to hear your truth. I want to learn about you. I want to hear what it is that you need or what it is that you want, and how we can maybe help you determine the difference between the two. What I need may not be with somebody else's need, and what I want may not be with somebody else want, just like what you want could be with somebody need and what somebody needs could be what you want. Do they cross each other? Possibility. So you'd have to determine that for yourself. So I want people to comment and let me know and hit me back. I want feedback on this topic this time around. I want some good feedback. I want speak your truth. Let me hear your truth and then live your truth. So I want to learn your truth so I can come on the...

...air and speak your truth, give you props for living your truth, and we're going to end it right there on that note. This is a call to action for all who listen. Give me a little feedback on this topic. I want to hear from you. I want to know what it is that you feel you need and I want to help you find it and I want to help you get it and maybe we can do an episode together and go over this and talk and explore this situation so much more because it's such a deep subject and it is so wide ranging and the diversity of what different people wants and what different people needs, and I think we can bridge a lot of animosity towards each other if we all had an understanding of what people need compared to what they want, and if we all work towards helping everybody get what they need, then what you want will naturally come to you on his own. You won't have to chase after it, it will present itself...

...to you. So we can get deeper into that and we don't get deeper into this subject, because this is going to be your ongoing subject and I want everybody to take the time to go to the website og good Gamecom, click on the contact button at the top of the page, give me an email in the comment section. Type it out, tell me, tell me what it is that you feel you need and what you feel you want and if you don't feel like doing all that, type and once again go to the website og good Gamecom and when you scroll down to the middle of the page you will see a send a voice message, so I want you to click on that. I want you to leave a voice message and give me your opinion on this subject. That's what I want to hear. Your opinion. What do you think about this? Do you think people out here are confused about what they want and what they need? I want to hear from you and I want to know what you think about it. I'm going to end this episode like I always do, love, peace and hair grease, and y'all stay safe. On the next episode of the Og of good game,...

...we discuss good vibes versus bad vibes, how good vibes can bring positive things into your life, how bad vibes can bring all that drama that you suffering in life, and we going to help you figure it out. So come back next week to listen.

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