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Episode · 1 year ago

What you Want vs What you Need

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Today's episode is about "What you Want vs What you Need"I give a little background on myself of this subject What I wanted compared to what I needed and how I found out what I truly needed.

Welcome to another exciting episode ofthe O G of good game, with your host zero game on today's episode, we aregoing to talk about what you need versus what you want. Let's get intothat hot topic right now, thanks for joining me, a kin on theoriginal go roof of good game. This is your host, a zero game or you can callme zero g or you can call me zero or you can call me Z, G or you can justcall me Ze doesn't matter. I will...

...respond to him all and once again Iwould like to say thank you very much for all of the downloads fall the likesall. He shares all. The comments really do appreciate it. I don't know how toput it exactly in the words what I'm feeling for all of the love andkindness I've been receiving, but I just want to say that I really doappreciate everything and really do appreciate y'a coming on this journeywith me. As I talk a bunch of Shit Anyway, today we are on the what youneed versus what you want now I decided to get into this subject only because Ibelieve a lot of people, I'm in speak from an experience for myself, but Ibelieve a lot of people are confused between what you want and what you need,and I think that's something that we need to touch on to help people learnwhat you want from what you need. So...

...you would stop going after things thatare not good for you and passing by all of the things that are good for you,because it doesn't reflect your fantasy image of what you want compared toreality. What you need we going to get started on that and we gon first. Iwant to give you a little background on myself. I had this problem for yearsyears, I'm telling you you know when I was a little shorty growing up all thethings that I wanted wanted to be rich wanted to be famous. I wanted abig fancy car. I wanted a big old fancy house, with a pool and tennis court andBasketball Court outdoor Sana and all that other shit you buy when you getrich, or least that's the stuff, you think you want. I wanted to fancyclothes. I wanted the expensive jewelry. I wanted to fancy car wanted the bigillustrious house with the big...

...sprawling landscape, with all thatother shit that I was going to be paying for out the ASS to maintain andkeep. I thought, that's what I wanted and I actively went after it busted myass trying to get it went through a lot of the ups and downs did some thingsthat I wished I wouldn't have done, because I'm not proud of what I did inmy pursuit of what I thought I wanted even with women. I made the mistake Abein after what I wanted, instead of what I needed. What I wanted was a woman whowas five feet to five five hundred and twenty to maybe a hundredand thirty, maybe forty pounds. Thirty, six C to Fort D, Breast Nice littlesmall, twenty four twenty six inch waist thirty, eight to forty inch, hipsbick round fat basket. Ball shaped booty, some Nice supple thighs withlittle muscles in them that got them little sexy lines when she walk somebig DSL lips and in case you wondering what D S L is growing up. That's aslang that we used to use. You know,...

...especially when you was AfricanAmerican and you had really big lips. They said you had some DSL, especiallyon a woman and at first I ain't know what the hell that mean when I was ashort people saying all them slaying things. I did not know what that meant,and in my brother you know he pulled me to the side say you know: D S. L standsfor Dick, sucking lips and in the men's case it was CSS Clit,sucking lips or TS. L's twot sucking lips dependingon how the woman categorizes what she want to suck on either the clip or theTwat or all of it, but that's a whole. Another conversation we going to haveon a later date and on a different episode right now we're going to stickto what we want compared to what we need now see. That's what I thought Iwanted, and you know I actively pursued it always trying to go after the prettygirl, with the pretty face the big Dick, sucking lips, the pretty eyes to Nice,hair, the big boob small ways, fat...

...booty. All that stuff. I thought Iwanted not don't get me wrong. Ain't, a damn thing wrong with none of that.Nothing there's nothing wrong with it, not a thing, but you have to put thisshit in perspective and you have to look at it as a whole and not just itsindividual parts and unfortunately, especially with men, we tend to look atthings at their individual parts instead of looking at them as a wholeand lately a lot of Women Hal starting to make that same mistake where youlooking at a man for his individual parts and not looking at him as a whole.So that's one thing we need to work on is stop looking at things with anindividual appeal and look at it for its overall use function and whether itwill enhance your life or just be another weight on your shoulders as youtrying to walk the road of life and do your life thing and have a nice life,and all of that that's not dependent on...

...what you want. It's more dependent onwhat you need and what I found out later in life, and as I learned thatwhat I needed and what I wanted was two different things now, when I finallyfigured this out- and I went after what I wanted after ittook me a while to realize what I wanted- and that was the journey, andsometimes we make it harder on ourselves when we don't have to how doyou figure out these two? For me, it was simple what I wanted wassuperficial. What I needed was substantial and what I needed wassomebody who cared about me. Somebody that actually love me somebody thatactually like to have me around somebody that would treat me withrespect and kindness and generosity somebody that gave a damn about how Ifelt and what I thought and you know look for in life and what I wanted todo in like somebody to actually pay that Shit. Some attention, that's whatI needed now, if it's wrapped in that...

...right package. Oh that's just gravy onthe biscuit, but if none, if you're not getting any O that you get in De, looksyou Gettin the booty, you Gettin the boobs or if you a lady, you Gettin asix pack, you get in a handsome face. You get in the Big Dick, but all theother stuff you not getting. You have to look at the whole package and notjust a percentage of the package see that way. You always end up in abetter position than you was. If you just went for the superficial- and Iknow people say oh well, that's common known! That's common knowledge. Peopleshould know that by now. Surprisingly enough, as smart as we humans claim, weare a lot of US- are stupid enough to get fall into that trap. Why we getblinded by the book beauty, and that goes for men and women we all getblinded by the beauty and for men. Lately it's been getting blinded by thebooty. If the booty write, you forget every damn thing else about her and theladies is starting to get blinded by...

...the bulge. If it's a big, bold sittingup there and hey the hell with the rest of them long as I can get that bulgeout, that's kind of superficial. Well, FUCK YOU UP! I often thought that Ineeded a fancy car. You know I was determined when I was in high school, Iwas determined I'm getting a BMW, seven. Thirty five, the Nice Rams all thatother shit spent a good period of that part of my life, doing a whole lot ofillegal shit, trying to get it and end up, never getting it and only realizedlater on in life. That was just a waste of my time. My effort, my mentality, myemotional stability, because all that shit I went chasing after turns outwasn't worth it really wasn't worth it because if you look at it, what's thedifference between a BMW and a Chevy, the fucking name, the corners they puton the offenders and shit, both of them are still cars. Four wheels enginetransmission drive train all that other...

...shit, both of them speed down the roadboth of them take gas. Both of them will fuck up. If you hit a Pothole,both of them require you to do maintenance. So what's the difference,the name in the look? That's it! That's all you paying for you paying for aname and you paying for a looking now. People say: Oh well, I'm paying for theluxury of the car. So that's what you paying for you payin for what a softleather compared to cloth you paying for a woodgrain dashboardcompared to one this simulated, wood, green, it's still plastic! It's still a seatdoesn't make any difference whether it's cloth, whether it's weather, isstill something you gonna have to put your ass on and put the seat belt on inorder to operate the car. So what difference does it make whether it'syou paying for luxury or you paying for Yukes function? I'd rather buy a car,that's going to do something for me and help me earn a few hours than buy damncard. The only thing I can do is spend...

...money to maintain it and look flying orI look flying my car costing me a ass in a leg to maintain it and keep it up.But I look fly in my car, God forbid it break down. I got the way for parts tobe ordered and imported into the country if they don't have any one hand,that's just too much of a headache. Why bother with the headache move onsimplify your life, take out all of the complications and one way to doing thatis by stop chasing after these fantasies. You had as a kid and growthe fuck up and pay attention and evaluate what you need to live. YourLife, that's more important than some shit that make you laugh and smile andget people to go o all for a quick minute, and then you back to sitting athome with your fancy car, your fancy home, your fancy cold. But you can'ttrust anybody who around you, because you don't know if they there, becausethey actually give a damn about you or if they just care about your shit andwhat you can do for him. So you need to...

...separate what you need versus what youwant that I'm going to leave as an open in topic here, and the reason why I'mleaving this opening is because I want to hear your truth. I want to learnabout you. I want to hear what it is that you need or what it is that youwant and how we can maybe help you determine the difference between thetwo. What I need may not be with somebodyelse's need and what I want may not be with somebody else, one just like whatyou want could be with somebody need and what somebody needs could be, whatyou want. Do they cross each other possibility. So you have to determinethat for yourself. So I want people to comment and let me know and hit me back.I won't feed back on this topic this time around. I want some good feed back.I want speak your truth. Let me hear your truth and then live your truth. SoI want to learn your truth, so I can...

...come on the air and speak your truth.Give you props for living your truth and we're going to end it right there.On that note, this is a call to action for all who listen give me a littlefeedback on this topic. I want to hear it from you. I want to know what it isthat you feel you need, and I want to help you find it, and I want to helpyou get it, and maybe we can do an episode together and go over this andtalk and explore the situation so much more because it's such a deep subjectand it's so wide ranging and the diversity of what different people wantand what different people need, and I think we can bridge a lot of animositytowards each other if we all had a understanding of what people needcompared to what they want and if we all work towards helping everybody getwhat they need, then what you want will naturally come to you on his own. Youwon't have to chase after it. It will...

...present itself to you, so we goin getdeeper into that and we won't get deeper into this subject, because thisis going to be an ongoing subject, and I want everybody to take the time to goto the website. O G, good Gamo Click on the contact button at the top of thepage. Give me an email in the comment section type it out. Tell me tell mewhat it is that you feel you need and what you feel you want, and if youdon't feel like doing all that typing once again go to the website, O g, goodGamecock, and when you scroll out to the middle of the page, you will see a send of voice message, so I want youto click on that. I want you to leave a voice message and give me your opinionon this subject. That's what I want to hear your opinion. What do you thinkabout this? Do you think people out here are confused about what they wantand what they need? I want to hear from you and I want to know what you thinkabout it I'm going to in this episode like I always do: Love Peace and hairgrease and you'll stay safe.

On the next episode of the Og of goodgame, we discuss good vibes, verses, bad vibes. How good vibes can bringpositive things into your life? How bad vibes can bring all that drama that yousuffering in life and we goin help you figure it out so come back next week tolisten.

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