Original Guru of Good Game
Original Guru of Good Game

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The Good Man Guide Series

ABOUT THIS EPISODE

This episode is all about what is a Good Man. This series we will define what is a Good man, how to spot one, and how to get to know one.

Hello, everyone and welcome back to another, exciting episode of the original Guru of good game or the O Gof good game. For Short, however, you want to pronounce it. It is okay withme. I really don't mind either way is fine and I just want to say shout outto all of the people who have listened. Thank you for getting me over that onethousand mark. I do appreciate it and I just want to send you all out a big hugand show you some love, because I really do appreciate that, and I hopeyou keep on listening to me and I hope we can get to another thousand and forthose who listen and then decided not to listen. Any more appreciate youlistening for as long as you did, you know me talking Shit and really dothank you for sticking around for as long as you did, and I hope you findwhat it is that you out there listening for and if you don't and you feel likeyou want to come back and hang out with me and listen, some more and shoot theshit. Please do. I would love to have you back, but if you don't want to comeback e, I wish you the best of luck in life and I hope you find what you'relistening for. Okay today, we goin to get into a topic here that is near anddear to my heart and it's an interesting topic, because it kind ofreflects of somewhat of my character and what Iused to be when I gonna say what I used to be. I'm say what I have become ismore to the point on that one. Well, not so much is more. What I become iswhat I've always been, but I've come to accept what I've always been, eventhough I was ridiculed made fun of laugh that and just basically put downfor being who I was. It was really hard times growing up trying tolive up to other people's expectations of myself, instead of me living up tothe expectations I set for my own self, and that was a really trying time, butI learned overcome things. You know you get older, you start to learn, you getexperience, you get wisdom and then you realize that the only opinion itmatters is the one that you have of yourself, because that's the onlyopinion that's going to actually manifest itself in your brain and takea real hold to actually developing you into that person that you want to benow. We got that out the way. Now we can get into this topic that is kind ofnear and there to me, and the topic is well before I explain what the topic is.Let me tell you how I got to decide to do a episode this week on this I waswatching an episode of Jerry. Springer was a rerun episode, but I was watchingit and there was a girl on there. She was on the show to meet, I guess hercrush her man crush Monday or whoever the fuck he was anyway. It started offwhat he was asking her questions about the guy and she was explaining. Oh He'sa good man, he got a job, he got his own car. He ain't got his own place. Ilike the way he dressed his swag okay. If that's what you consider as a goodman- okay, I guess that's what it could be. I don't know for woman. That doesnot seem like that's a good man for gold digger. It does before a real woman. It don't well atleast for a good woman that don't we need to start defining them to goodwoman, real woman, okay, there's a big difference that we going to get intohim a later date. Anyway. The episode was that she thought she had a good manand he come on out and they played a little game, and you know all thisstuff, for you know flirtation and they had the big dice and they was rollingthem, and everything- and all of this...

...and the thing that struck me kind ofstrange- was she was adamant about him. Being a good man. He's a good man he'sa good one. I can't let him go he's a good until the girlfriend he had for afew years that he lived with, came out and tried to whip a ass, and thatbrought me to this topic that I just had to get out, because it's kind ofsomething that I you know I take personally, and the thing is that Idecided that I needed to come out with a topic on good men, and I was thinkingabout calling to the good man guide series and it's to help. Not only menwho are good men have a voice in the world and be recognized for who theyare, but it's also for women to recognize what a good man is for. Yousee there's the most important part of that topic. What is a good man for you nowgirlfriend her definition of a good man was all superficial: Can Job Cribapartment, whatever stylish clothes, and for that he's a good man at nopoint in time when Jerry was asking her well, what make him a good man did anytime she came out with anything about the content of his character, and I think that's what you, ladies,are missing out on when you sitting up here, trying to decide what a good manis and then you're not really making that decision. For Yourself. Most of the time I hear women talkingabout a good man is based on superficial things that the media, TV,radio, entertainment all that shit out there has convinced you that these arethe qualities of a good man and they're. Not I mean Donald Trump got a car.Donald trump got his own place. Donald Trump got a lot of money. Donald trumpeven got nice clothes, but is he a good person? L? No Hell? No! He cheated on every woman. He's everbeen with every wife he's ever had he's cheatingon them, every single one of them. There is not one wife did he put the ring on that finger thatthat man has ever been faithful to and the reason why I bring that up isbecause one thing is: I'm really getting offended and second tire ofwomen on social media whining about there ain't, no good men Cain't find a good man. Good man don'texist, no more! Oh! We, the fuck out here. I know I'm one, I've known thatfor years and I always tried to down play it because it was always you knowhe lame. He boring he dis. He had he ain't exciting. He Ain't this. He ain'tthat yeah, because I'm not out here getting in the stupid shit. It seemedlike a good man to a lot of women out. Here is if we, my fuck, is in jail orgetting out of jail or doing shit that will get him put in jail or sleepingwith your friends, sleeping with your family members or sleeping with a wholebunch of other women. Did you have no idea about, but he's a good man,because why he got a car, he got a job and you mean he got some money. He hadhis own place. He he dressed icy. I like his swag as they say, but look outyou play yourself and that's exactly what's happening, you're playingyourselves because you're basing a good man on a fantasy and not a reality andthen the sad part about it is a day. I don't think any yell know what a goodman is. So how you going to say: There's no good men. If you ain't nevermet one. If you ain't never dated one, if you ain't never been intimate withone, then you have no idea what a good man is and then you keep chasing after thesame kind of man expecting him to be a...

...good man from the last one, and thenyou get the same thing over. That's insanity, doing the same thing over andover again and expecting a different outcome. That's insanity andunfortunately, a lot of women in America have decided to go insane andkeep trying to date. The same type of do because this is what you want, notwhat you need. I got an episode on that y'all need to check that one out. Ifyou a lady, you need to figure out what it is that you need in that man and notwhat you want. So you want a car. You want a good paying job. You want a niceapartment or House. You want him to have stylish designer name clothes, butdoes that make him a good man, or does that just make another asshole withmaterialistic stuff? I'm just asking- and I hope that you are willing toanswer, because I'm just really tired of keep saying how y'all keep windingabout this. No good men. I saw this thing on facebook some years back and it made alot of sense because it was kind of an unusual little Mimi Emmy hid fuckin. Ipronounced that and it was a picture of Christopher Reeves. You know the guythat played the first superman movie, big blockbuster movie, that madesuperheroes become popular and they showed the scene where he was openingup his shirt with the TI on had to have the glasses and he you know gettingready to. You, see the big Esse on his chest, and it said women always wantSuperman but walking right past Clark, Kent and that kind of brought me tothis topic. When you know I kept saying all of this ain't, no good man, thesemen ain't nothing but community Dick they dick for everybody, ain't, noloyalty, tis brothers, ain't, loyal these men, ain't loyal they out herefor everybody, Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah, and it still brings me back to the samepoint: Why do you keep going after the same type of man knowing Dan wellyou're, going to get the same type of results mentally or emotionally isfucked up with you. You got some low self esteem where you got an emotionalissue, you got daddy issues or something. This red is keeping you going after the same type of man andgetting the same type of result, or do you believe in your head that if youlove him and if you show him your loyalty and you jump through hoops andyou do everything he want to, do he going say, she's a good one, and Ican't fuck up with her and I'm going to love her and be right in this that youthink you're going to change you yeah you ain't going to change you ain'tGoin, to change him at all. The only thing you're going to change. Is Yougoin to make him worse than what he was because he knows if he can go out hereand do all this dirt and you going to sit there witting talking about you?Well, you know, okay, I a relationship takes work and you got to fight foryours this that and other. Why are you fighting for somebody that ain'tfighting for you? That is always perplexed me about women, you're,constantly fighting for a doe dat ain't Fightin, for you he's not fighting foryour love, he's not fighting for your affections he's, not fighting for yourattention and your loyalty. He ain't doing. None of that. All he want to do is keep you around isthe main piece. While he got six, seven, eight nine side pieces and you allowinghim to do it so why the fuck would he go anywhere? Should she allow me tofuck around with other bitches? All I got to do is come back, say, baby, I'msorry! I love you. They don't mean nothing. It was just sex and then bandwe back together or she forget about the whole thing didn. She want to go,beat up the woman who don't know nothing about her or even do dat. Heeven had a woman and vice versa. Vice versa. Let's get this straight. Okay,women be pulling that shit too. The only difference is y'all gotconsequences behind y'all doing that shit when you got a main dude and fivesix other dicks on the side. You got a consequence on on your end, becausefuck around and break that kindom or...

...that more fucking on work. The way it'ssupposed to bet y'all got drunk and got caught up in the moment, and one wasnot used. You will be on Mari Povich, while he with the little yellowenvelope Holler. He is not the father. The not pretend like that ain'thappening all right before we start pointing fingers back at each other,but I'm just bringing us up, because I really think you need to figure out.What's a good man for you and not keep going with this generalization of whata good man is, you need to determine what is the characteristics of hiscontent? It makes him a good man for me, because what a good man is for. You maynot be a good man for the next woman when what may not be a good man forthis woman may be a perfect man for you, but you got to sit there and determinewhat it is about the character, the content of their character. That makesthem a good man for you and fellows. Do the same. fucking thing stop goingafter the freak, the hole, the select, broad and thinking. You got a goodwoman, because you gonna put her in check or put it down or we or she justaddicted to the Dick and she gonta do whatever you want. Just that, and otheralways remember, no matter how big Yo deck is somebody going to be born witha bigger one. That's just reality get over. It live with. It move the fuck onwhatever you got to do. That's just reality, but I want to keep this series goingbecause I want to get more interaction amongst men andwomen and especially want to hear from women about what it is that youconsider as a good man, because I want to help you be able tofind a good man, so you can get through the sea of assholes because there'splenty of assholes out there and there is enough good men out there. You justhave to identify him and that's what this is going to be about helping youidentify the good men this out there, because I guarantee you every woman out here. If you know morethan five men, there is more than likely one good man in that five mangroup that you ain't, paying no attention to you too busy chasing afterthe ass hole because he swagged up and he's exciting and all of that othersuperficial shit that even a good man can acquire. He can develop them sayingtraits and skills, but you got to let him know. That's what excites youthat's what turn you on now? He ain't going to do that for somebody. This notgoing to appreciate him for the man that he is and willing to. You know puton the persona to keep his woman happy, because that's what a good man would do. He wouldn't come to you with the fakepersona. He come to you as a real man as a good man and then in your dating relationshipcourting whatever the fuck. You want to call it you've established to thebrother what it is that excite you what it is that you like, and then he canadopt some of them traits, and I don't expect him to turn into the bad boyrunning out here, robbing liquor stores and selling dope on the corner andgoing to jail and shooting guns and shit. He may never do that, but he cantake on the dress he can take on the attitude in the persona that you wouldlike hey as long as he ploughing your ass down in the bedroom and shit. Allthe other ship is acquirable is something that he can develop tosatisfy. Now. Remember that goes both ways. So if he willing to do that foryou, then you need to meet him halfway and come correct on your own for hisbehalf and see a lot of that is not happening, and that is why so muchconflict between men and women in this country and women, finding it hard tofind a good man, but we are out there, but you have got to know how toidentify him. You not identifying a good man, you just identifying demand that youthink you want and not finding somebody...

...that you need and that's the bigdifference get out of the Terry McMillan Romance novels or whatever thefuck. She writing and all them other lifetime shows and get off of that crap,because I ain't on it that real, that's all something somebody wrote up and youcan't use that as a guideline to determine what is a good man and fell the same thing. You can't usethe stuff that you read and all of that you know playboy pin, house or whateveryou read and thinking all women is that I got to get out of that got to get outof it. Can ee watching the rap videos andthink that every woman out there who got a big booty and small waist in thepretty face is some fuck freak slut that all you got to do is Brag aboutyour rap career grab you Dick to show how big it is and Bam she on thereriding on your pole. It don't work that way and if you do meet a woman and that'sall it took for you to get her to ride on your pole, then brother, Sir FriendMan, Homey, Ace Boon. COON. Take your ass to the clinic the nextfucking morning and get yourself checked out, because you might havesome shit that they can't identify or they might need to study it in order toclarify what I, what exactly it is. So just keep that in mind. Those are justsome of the things that we need to get on, because before I get deep into thisseries that I'm gonna do on the good man guy, we have to establish what agood man is not first and that'll, be the next episode. The next episode whenwe come back with the original guru of good game and the good man guy we goingto speak on what a good man is. Not so you can stop delusion yourself andthinking. That's a good man, because a lot of y'all is seriously delusional.You really are you looking as superficial characteristics andapplying them to good man traits and that's not even close to how that ShitWork and we GONTA get into that on a deeper level. I just wanted to kick iton this to let you know about this series and I'm gonna do good man, Godit's going to help. You identify the good man, and it's also going to helpthe men out here identify the good man traits they have in themselves and workmore on that becoming dominant in his personality and character. So it'lloverpower the nine good man traits, because we all got that and that's howI had to learn to be a good man, because I had them characteristics.They were already there. The traits was already there. I was doing a lot ofthem and didn't realize that's what I was doing, but unfortunately in thestate in the city and that I grew up in. If you wasn't a bad boy out here,causing all kind of trouble in Ruckus, then you were lame. You were a nice guy.You were all the shit that did not attract a woman and I'm serious on thatone that at least that's what happened to me now. I can't speak for the otherbrothers out here, but that's what happened to me. Thatwas my experience and it wasn't until I got out of high school and I actuallystarted living up to who I really was and stop trying to be somebody that Iknew I could never be because that just wasn't in me to be that way is when theworld opened up to me and the good women just started coming out thefucking wood work. I mean it was like roaches to a jelly donut sitting in themiddle of the floor boom. They was on my ass and I you know- and for me that waskind of unusual, because I never had that kind of attention, but it wasn't.Until I got older out of high school left the city I was in and wentsomewhere else see. I went to the south yeah, that's right. I went down to theATA and I had got a different perspective from some of the women thatI metdown there who were actively out...

...seeking a good man because they weregood women and, needless to say, I had a lot of choices, but that was theproblem. I wasn't the player type. I wasn't going to be lying to this one,while I'm laying up in the bed with that one. I went at trying to take allthese numbers in. I wasn't trying to get this little stable, a women tocompete for my attention. I just wasn't going to do that and the reason why I wasn't going to dothat because, while I'm holding up look, I can't marry all of them. Can I I canonly marry one unless I joined one of them, polygamus colts, and yet thatain't about to happen, because you know you, your man is not on that religiousbullshit in no way shape or form. So that wasn't going to happen. That was anon starter from the junk, but the way I looked at it, these were some goodwomen and there's some good men out there.They missing each other because they wasting their time, trying to get me topick them as the main one. I just felt a little. You know more responsibilityto be a little up front and a little bit more righteous about my shit. Youknow I made my choice for the one that I wanted to spend my time with itdidn't work out the way I wanted to o she portrayed herself as a good womanand then flip the script and decided a good girl wanted to go bad and she wentbad and last thing I heard she was a crack headhole somewhere up and down Olympic Avenue. That was the last thing I heardnow. How much of that is the truth? I don't know. I say I haven't seen her inyears, but that's what I heard, because she decided that the drug dealer wasmore exciting and more fun to be around than me and that's who she ran with youknow she wanted to experience the the bad boy, lifestyle and, and you knowthe excitement and the street life and well. She got a crash course on thestreet like because I didn't heard some things that she had to do to get high and some of it included a pit bull. I ain't going to say what would entailwith the pit ball, but that's what I heard well. Actually, I saw a photo,but I didn't want to bring that up. It is what it is anyway. We going to keep this going, because Ibelieve this is a good topic. Did a lot of people, especially women, you'll,need to hear this shit and I know I'm a little bit raw unfiltered and sometimes I'm even a little bitharsh on the women and the only reason why I'm a little bit more harsher onthe women is because you are our mothers. You are the mothers of our children.You are the child's first teacher in life and it is imperative that you have the right information inthe right situation in the right environment. So you can teach thatchild correctly. Now you got a man putting you through all kind of stressand headache. He running around this woman that woman you going through alljump through all these hoops trying to catch him and catch her. A man, that'sjust too much stress and that's too much negative knowledge for a child toreceive at such a young age. I want him to have a healthy mentalidea of relationships, not just twisted shit, that a lot of us is dealing withand going through right now- and there is a lot of us watch Mary Twentysomething years- Jerry Springer Twenty five years and they can show you didit's a lot of twisty shit happening out here, and it doesn't need to be thatway we need to. We need to get that shit right. So now that I gave you alittle bit on the beginning of the good man guide, like I said, we gon t getmore specific and the next week's episode and the Good Man God, but right now we just wanted to giveyou an idea of what the show was about and what it is that we try toaccomplish, and mainly we just trying...

...to give good men better gain and tryingto give good women gain to get to the good man. That's what the good man guide is allabout. Now I can't speak for the good women, because I'm not a woman, so Ican't do that, but I can speak for the men or at least about men, to the women,because I'm a man- and this is what I know- and hopefully you ladies willlisten to that- and you get that knowledge and you'll learn, speak andlive that good man good gain truth. So I'm going to end it right there and Ihope you enjoy listening to what I had to say and I hope you come back andlisten so Mo. I really do because we don't get some serious, deep thoughtinto this one and it might help a lot of you out, especially you, ladiesbecause here's the thing that I want to leave you with before I go. A good manin different parts of the world is looked upon differently compared to herin the USA. Lot Of those women from South Americadid walk a couple of thousand miles to get to America. If you ever get achance to speak to some of them, and I've spoken to a few, because when I lived in inland, I workwith a lot of them doing. Construction stuff, like that, you meet a lot ofpeople worked in a couple: hotels, warehouses this that and t other, andmost of them spoke really good. English. You had the few you that had the thickaccent and made it difficulty kind of understand what they were saying, butyou get to Justa what they was talking about, and the thing that I've learnedis that a good man in South America is more popular than the bad boy is herein America and the reason why is because they got the bad boy everywhere.The fucking car tells that my fucking is in the thousands and not so muchworking directly for the cartel, but you got thousand month fucking to workindirectly for the car tails so to for them, women to find a good man or agood guy is more important than the rich narco or the ones that work forthe article. They all got good money, they all pockets fat. They appreciate agood guy, good man more than women in America appreciate a good guy, good man and that's one of the reasons why theywas coming up here because they trying to get away from the Narcos the badguys, the assholes, that they have an abundance down there, because the drugtrade is interwoven in pretty much all of their society and it's making hisway to being interwoven pretty much in all of our society too. But we lockedup, we got a little bit better control and the government pretty much don'tput up in no bullshit like they do down there. So we just wanted to touch on that. Ihope you understand where I'm coming from now and we GONTA get more into it.So you can understand even more where I'm coming from and I'm going to endthis episode and if any you get a chance, please go to og good Ganeo,that's www, O g, good Gamo and from there you can listen to any of theepisodes any the past episodes. If you sign up, you can like sharecomment on any of the episodes now. Unfortunately, the voice recordingthing is not working the way it's supposed to her something about flashplayer, and maybe that's just my system, so it might work on yours, but it's notworking on mine, I'm just let you know that right now and I'm working to rectify that problem at a sap because,like I said, I'm not sure if it's just because my system is a little old andsince they discontinue and support for flash pair on some of these browsers.That might be the problem. I don't know I'll have to check into that, but I amgoing to get that sort that that issue...

...solved probably over the weekend, and I should have everything back upand run in no later than Tuesday or Wednesday and next week pending on. IfI got to do all this myself or if I go out and hire somebody to do somethingto work for me, haven't got to that point yet still thinking it out, butthat's where I want to leave this episode that and once again, if you geta chance, go to www, O g good gamecock, a comment in the comment: sectionswhere it says, contact us and there will be a comment box and you put inyour email, write your comment it sent so all it takes, and once again Iappreciate everybody for sticking around listening. Thank you forsticking around to into this episode and, as you know, the way I always end,it is love peace and his Greeks and I'm out a.

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