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The 3 Pillars of a Good Man.

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Today I give you the 3 pillars of a Good Man / Woman....1- They must be Smart. (Academic and Street smart.)2- They must be a Real Man / Woman.3- They must be Strong.Come back next week at 7pm for "Pillar" #2 and learn the difference between a Good man/woman and a Real man/woman... Don't forget to Like, Share, Comment.

Welcome back to another excitingepisode of the original Gooroo of good game, and I am your host the originalguru himself, zero game. Thank you for coming back and thank you for keepinglistening. I want to give a shout out to everybody who listens and everybodywho listened and decided not to listen. No more. I appreciate you listening foras long as you did and if you ever decide to come back more an welcome youback and hope to hear from you again anyway for everybody else. Thank you somuch for sticking around anyway. We gonta get on this episodeand we are continuing up on the good man guide series. So we are at this point the...

...good man guy series. We are going toget drop for you this time, the three pillars of a good man. Now,incidentally, these pillars work. Both sides of the sex is so they work justas well for a good woman. is they weren't for a good man, butlet's get something established first now the one thing I want to make clearand I was trying to touch a little bit on this one in the last episode, but I might have got a little bit alittle bit too into it. You know I kind of get really carried away with thisstuff, sometimes, but anyway, and the previous episode, I was tryingto get more of a definition to look for what would be a good man or a goodwoman in a sense that you need to look for that person. That's a good man orgood woman for you...

...not for everybody else, just for you and that's where I think the disconnectis preventing people from actually finding a good man or a good woman,because I hear a lot of women complaining about. There are no goodmen we are out here. We have always been here. The problem is, is that thebasic image of the good man being promoted in the media today tends to besuperficial in nature and origin, and I think that's where that disconnect iscoming in, because it's a pretty much like a cookie cutter generalization ofwhat a good man is spread this across the board and, as you see it does notalways fit because they there are variances. There are small and littledifferences and intricate things that take place. That makes each one aunique good man, but you have to look for the good man and the men that arethere. We are here, you just got to see...

...us and you have to see us for you notfor what your girlfriend likes or what you out. You like what your cousin,like what your neighbor like. What is a good man for you. That is the mainthing that you need to hunt for, and the spirit of that I wanted to help. Give you these threepillars now this can apply to women and it can apply to men because Fellas we need a good woman and a good womanshould have these three pillars to build on. If she not working with thesethree pillars, then you might want to reevaluate what classification youmight want to put her in a definition. I don't know how you sort out your women, that's only you,but I'm gonna give you these three pillars of a good man. Now you need towrite them down. Get Your Pen in the pad write. This shit down might want to keep it in your walletmemorize. It put it on a little card sticking in your purse, making into a poster sticking on yourwall. I don't know what you got...

...whatever you got to do, to keep thesefresh in your mind on the daily basis, but always try to keep these threepillars fresh in your mind, and this is how you can determine whether you'redealing with a good man or a bad man and fellows. This is the three pillarsthat you need to have. If you duchos chooses, remember, choose to be a goodman, but before I dropped them pillars, let me make this one thing clear: agood man or a good woman. They are not born. They are not created, they're,not trained they're, not made they're, not none of that Shit. That impliessomething of a possession, and you cannot possess a person. Youcan't possess somebody else's soul, a right. That's TV, fantasy, magic, stuff,that's not reality! Reality is they are chosen because they choose tobe a good man or a good woman. It's about the choice that you chooses tomake on a daily basis. Anything that...

...you do in life is a choice and everysecond of life gives you the opportunity to make a choice. A goodchoice or bad choice is always up to you. So you have to look for that traitin people that they choose to be a good man or they choose to be a good womanand not somebody to come with some crap about they were made or born good.That's all bullshit! Nobody is born good or bad is the choices that we makein life to determine what station we choose to play. Am I going to play the good guy or I'ma going to play a bad guy? That's all there is to it. So now, let's get backto these pillars, because I don't want to very off too far from me, because Iwant you to get this shit and I want you all to keep this shit and, like Isaid, write it down Tattoo on your arm. Whatever you got to do, memorize it putit on the Flash Card Business Card. T...

...shirt, write it on Eugenes. I don'tknow what you need to do, but just do it all right. Here's the three pillars.First, one smart, good man or good woman is intelligent, both academically andstreet wise. They think of others feelings when making decisions. Familyfriends, but you always value their opinion. You may not act on it, but you will value what they say to yousee. That's a smart person will always use a logical, intelligent thoughtbefore making actions that affect themselves and all those people aroundthem, especially the ones that you care about, and it's not really enough smartbeing put into a lot of the decisions. People are making the day only becausewe are in a society where most of the decision is made for you get your assup. Come to this job punch in this...

...clock. Do this tedious work punch outof that clock? Take your lass home, sleep. Eat, repeat, see choices madefor you, but, like I said, a good man or a goodwoman, always use their prayings when they making these decisions. They consider other people that areintimately evolved in their lives before they make a decision that wouldaffect them and the ones they love. Nowadays, you just got everybody hey.If it affects me fuck. You only reason why I made that decision,because it either benefited me or it wouldn't benefit me to do something foryou pretty much keep their mind that me meet me and only me, and if you can get something out of itin the process, then you better get it while the opportunity is there, becauseI damn show ain't about to give it to you and that's something that preventsgood men, good women finding each other,...

...because we dancing through all of thesemimes. It's a whole bunch of mines. OUT HERE ME ME ME mind my mine and theykind of fill up the space. So when you trying to find that good man, a goodwoman, that kind of block in to view- and you end up catching on to theillusion and there's a lot of illusion going on out here- you know the fake ittill you make it yeah, it's a whole bunch of them. This faking, like thegood men and good women until they make it with a good man or a good woman, ofcourse by then they are so emotionally mentally, spiritually damaged that when theyactually do find that good man or that good woman, they have no idea how to bewith a good man or a good woman. So we going to help you out here by givingyou these three pillars, so you know what to look for if you've never beenwith one, then this way this will help you get one and it will also help youbecome a good man or a good woman by...

...practicing these three pillars, so thefirst pillar, smart got to be smart, got to have him brains got to use yourbrains, I'm not saying you need to go, get youa PhD or doctorate or whatever you know you, ain't got to be a Sheldon Cooper,graduated college at Fourteen, I'm not saying any of that. What I'm saying isis that you have to take the opportunity to increase your knowledgebase. That's simply reading a couple of books doing a little research that you mightneed to know about. No, I can't tell you what it is. You need to know about.That's up to you, so you figured out what you need to know about check yourlocal library, Google. You can definitely find whatever informationyou need to find and if you can't find it or you need to hear it or speak tosomebody look around ask questions. Intelligent questions will always getyou an intelligent answer. If you ask a dumb question, you still ask out eitherway whether you get the queston...

...answered or not, so we can leave thatalone. Them smarts also have to be street. Smarts have to have a little street hustle andit not so much that you need to be out here hustling on the street. I'm notsaying that what I'm saying is you have to have street so Mars to recognizewhat is street shit and what is good shit see that's where that good gamecome in at, and you have to develop that for yourself and what's happeninggenerally on these streets, because if you go and you ain't paying attention and your mind, ain't catching thehustle or the game or the bullshit they running under you, you will get got onstreets. Have No love for you. I'm gonna tell you that right now, so makesure you got your street smarts on point, get to know one or two that youcan be cool with. It may have your back when needed, and even if they ain't got you back atleast they can guide you and give you a...

...little low down to what's going down.So I know not to be involved in any of that bullship and, if need be, youmight have to make a quick street hustle here and there now doesn't haveto be nothing illegally with narcotics or anything like that. You know youmight have come into a situation where you need a few extra dollars to paythis bill or to cover this emergency situation. I got this extra TV sittingin the back room, I'm not using. Let me see if I can find somebody out therewant to give me a few bucks for it scratch you up a few dollars, need ittake care of emergency situation. You never know what pops up when you mightbe a little short and you might need to make a phone call bust the corner andhit the block, see your boy and throw him a couple of dollars. If he can help.You mood his joint, sometimes shit like that happens. You never know, but a good man will have them smart toknow how to deal with that and the smarts to recognize it to keep him andhis family away from it. If that's what...

...he cheso chooses, I'm not saying you got the hide fromthese streets. If you live near these streets or that's where your residenceis, but you need to know how to maneuver and how to interweave and walkthrough the streets without being a victim pray or getting got, couldn'tmen know that so recognize that in a good man, all right that was pillar number onepillar number two: is you got to be a real man or a real woman pillar numberthree: you got to be strong. We goin to get in to number two nextweek and I'm explaining to you with the in a real man, a real woman. Are youthinking like well ain't that a good man ain't that no good man and real manare two different things and we going to get into a deep explanation on thatnext week on the Og of good game with your host, the original Guru, zero gameand we going to get into this good man...

...guy series. So look out for me becausewe're going to be dropping it next week, seven p m the original guru of good game with thegood man guide series. Thank you once again for listening. I hope you enjoyedthe show, and I hope you got something out of this information- Learn yourtruth, speak the truth live the truth only on the o g of good gay and wewould love for you to give us some likes. Some shares some comments. Youcan go to our website, www t o g, good gamecock and you can click on thecontact button at the top and on the contact page. Please put in your emailand you can write a comment and send it directly to US anyway. I would like tosay everybody enjoy the rest of your day your evening, you're night, whereover the part of the world you living in, and I will end this the way Ialways do, which is love, peace and...

...hair grease and I'm out a.

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