Original Guru of Good Game
Original Guru of Good Game

Episode · 1 year ago

The 3 Pillars of a Good Man.

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Today I give you the 3 pillars of a Good Man / Woman....1- They must be Smart. (Academic and Street smart.)2- They must be a Real Man / Woman.3- They must be Strong.Come back next week at 7pm for "Pillar" #2 and learn the difference between a Good man/woman and a Real man/woman... Don't forget to Like, Share, Comment.

Welcome back to another exciting episode of the original Guru of good game, and I am your host, the original guru himself, zero game. Thank you for coming back and thank you for keeping listening. I want to give a shout out to everybody who listens and everybody who listened and decided not to listen no more. I appreciate you listening for as long as you did and if you ever decide to come back, more than welcome you back and hope to hear from you again. Anyway. For everybody else, thank you so much for sticking around. Anyway, we going to get on this episode and we are continuing up on the good man guide series. So we are at this point the good man guy series. We are going to get dropped for you...

...this time the three pillars of good man. Now, incidentally, these pillars work both sides of the sexes, so they work just as well for a good woman is they work for a good man. But let's get something established first. Now, the one thing I want to make clear, and I was trying to touch a little bit on this one in the last episode, but it I might have got a little bit, little bit too into it. You know, I kind of get really carried away with this stuff sometimes. But Anyway, in the previous episode I was trying to get more of a definition, to look for what would be a good man or a good woman, in a sense that you need to look for that person that's a good man or good woman for you, not for everybody else, just for...

...you, and that's where I think the disconnect is preventing people from actually finding a good man or a good woman, because I hear a lot of women complaining about there are no good men. We are out here, we have always been here. The problem is is that the basic image of the good man being promoted in the media today tends to be superficial in nature and origin, and I think that's where that disconnect is coming in, because it's a pretty much like a cookie cutter generalization of what a good man is spread this across the board and, as you see, it does not always fit because they there are variances, there are small and little differences and intricate things that take place that makes each want a unique good man. But you have to look for the good man in the men that are there. We all here.

You just got to see us and you have to see us for you, not for what your girlfriend likes or what your t like or what your cousin like or what your neighbor like. What is a good man for you? That is the main thing that you need to hunt for, and the spirit of that, I wanted to help give you these three pillars. Now, this can apply to women and it can apply to men, because, fellas, we need a good woman, and a good woman should had these three pillars to build on. If she not working with these three pillars, then you might want to reevaluate what classification you might want to put her in a definition. I don't know how you sort out your women. That's on you, but I'm gonna give you these three pillars of a good man. Now you need to write them down. Get Your Pen and a pad. Write this shit down. Might want to keep it in your wallet, memorize and putting on a little cards, sticking in your purse, making into a poster, stick it on your wall. I don't know what you got,...

...whatever you got to do to keep these fresh in your mind on a daily basis, but always try to keep these three pillars fresh in your mind, and this is how you can determine whether you're dealing with a good man or a bad man and fellas. This is the three pillars that you need to have if you just choose, choose, remember, choose to be a good man. But before I drop them pillars, let me make this one thing clear. A good man or a good woman, they are not born, they are not created, they're not trained, they're not made, they're not none of that shit. That implies something of a possession, and you cannot possess a person. You can't possess somebody else's soul. All right, that's TV, fantasy, magic stuff. That's not reality. Reality is they are chosen because they choose to be a good man or a good woman. It's about the choice that you choose to make on a daily basis. Anything that...

...you do in life is a choice and every second of life gives you the opportunity to make a choice, a good choice or bad choice. It's always up to you. So you have to look for that trait in people that they choose to be a good man or they choose to be a good woman, and not somebody to come with some crap about they were made or born a good that's all bullshit. Nobody is born good or bad. Is the choices that we make in life to determine what station we choose to play. Am I going to play a good guy or I'm going to play a bad guy? That's all there is to it. So now let's get back to these pillars, because I don't want to they're off too. Far From It, because I want y'all to get this shit and I want y'all to keep this shit and, like I said, write it down, tattooed on your arm, whatever you got to do, memorize it, putting on a flash...

...card, business card, t shirt, write it on you, James, I don't know what you need to do, but just do it all right. Here's the three pillars. First, one smart good man or good woman is intelligent, both academically and streetwise. They think of others feelings when making decisions, family friends, but you always value their opinion. You may not act on it, but you will value what they say to you. See, that's a smart person. Will always use logical, intelligent thought before making actions that affect themselves and all those people around them, especially the ones that you care about. And it's not really enough smarts being put into a lot of the decisions people are making the day, only because we are in a society where most of the decision is made for you. Get your ass up, come to this job, punching this clock, do this tedious work,...

...punch out of that clock, take your ass home, sleep, eat, repeat. See Choices made for you. But, like I said, a good man or a good woman always use their prayings when they making these decisions. They consider other people that are intimately involved in their lives before they make a decision that would affect them and the ones they love. Nowadays, you just got everybody. Hey, if it affects me, fuck you. Only reason why I made that decision because it either benefited me or it wouldn't benefit me to do something for you pretty much keep their mind at me, meet me, and only me, and if you can get something out of it in the process, then you better get it while the opportunity is there, because I damn sure ain't about to give it to you, and that's something that prevents good men good women finding each other, because we dancing through all...

...of these memes. It's a whole bunch of memes out here. Me, me, me, my mind, mind, and they kind of fill up the space. So when you trying to find that good man a good woman. That kind of blocking the view and you end up catching on to the illusion. And there's a lot of illusion going on out here. You know, to fake it till you make it. Yeah, it's a whole bunch of them that's faking like they good men and good women until they make it with a good man or a good woman. Of course, by then they are so emotionally, mentally spiritually damaged that when they actually do find that good man or that good woman, they have no idea how to be with a good man or a good woman. So we're going to help you out here by giving you these three pillars so you know what to look for. If you never been with one, then this way, this will help you get one and it will also help you become a good man or a good woman...

...by practicing these three pillars. So the first pillar, smart. Got To be smart, got to have them brains, got to use your brains. I'm not saying you need to go get you a PhD or doctorate or whatever. You know, you ain't got to be a Sheldon Cooper, graduated college at Fourteen. I'm not saying any of that. What I'm saying is is that you have to take the opportunity to increase your knowledge base. That's simply reading a couple of books, doing a little research that you might need to know about. Now, I can't tell you what it is you need to know about. That's up to you. So you figured out what you need to know about, check your local library, Google, you can definitely find whatever information you need to find. And if you can't find it or you need to hear it or speak to somebody, look around ask questions. Intelligent questions will always get you an intelligent answer. If you ask a dumb question, you still ask out either way, whether you get the question answered or...

...not. So we don't lead that alone. Them smarts also have to be street smarts. have to have a little street hustle, and it not so much that you need to be out here hustling on the streets. I'm not saying that. What I'm saying is you have to have street smarts to recognize what is street shit and what is good shit. See, that's where that good game come in at, and you have to develop that for yourself and what's happening generally on the streets, because if you go and you ain't paying attention and your mind ain't catching the hustle or the game or the bullshit they running under you, you will get got them. Streets have no love for you. I'm to tell you that right now. So make sure you got your street smarts on point. Get to know one or two that you can be cool with. The may have your back when needed and even if they aint got your back, at least they can guide you and give you a...

...little lowdown or what's going down. So I know not to be involved in any of that bullshit. And if need be, you might have to make a quick street hustle here and there. Now doesn't have to be nothing illegally with narcotics anything like that. You know, you might have come into a situation where you need a few extra dollars to pay this bill or to cover this emergency situation. I got this extra TV sitting in the back room I'm not using. Let me see if I can find somebody out there want to give me a few bucks for it. Scratch you up a few dollars needed take care of emergency situation. You never know what pops up when you might be a little short and you might need to make a phone call, bust the corner and hit the block, see your boy and throw them a couple of dollars if he can help you move his joint. Sometimes Shit like that happens. You never know, but a good man will have them smarts to know how to deal with that and two smarts to recognize it to keep him and his family away from it, if that's what he so chooses. I'm...

...not saying you got to hide from these streets if you live near these streets or that's where your residence is, but you need to know how to maneuver and how to inner weave and walk through them streets without being the victim, pray or getting got. Good men know that. So recognize that in a good man. All right, that was pillar number one. A pillar number two is you got to be a real man or real woman. Pillar number three, you got to be strong. We going to get in too number two next week and I'm explain to you with in a real man real woman. Now you thinking like, well, ain't that a good man? Ain't that? Nope, good man and real man are two different things and we going to get into a deep explanation on that next week. On the Og of good game with your host, the original guru zero game, and we...

...going to get into this good man guy series. So look out for me, because we going to be dropping it next week seven PM, the original guru of good game with the good man guys series. Thank you once again for listening. I hope you enjoyed the show and I hope you got something out of this information. Learn your truth, speak the truth, live the truth only on the og of good game and we would love for you to give us some likes, some shares, some comments. You can go to our website, www dotoge good gamecom and you can click on the contact button at the top and on the contact page please put in your email and you can write comment and send it directly to us. Anyway, I would like to say everybody, enjoy the rest of your day, your evening, your nightware over the part of the world you live it in. And I will...

...end this the way I always do, which is love, peace and hair grease, and I'm out.

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