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Episode · 1 year ago

The 3 Pillars of a Good Man.

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Today I give you the 3 pillars of a Good Man / Woman....1- They must be Smart. (Academic and Street smart.)2- They must be a Real Man / Woman.3- They must be Strong.Come back next week at 7pm for "Pillar" #2 and learn the difference between a Good man/woman and a Real man/woman... Don't forget to Like, Share, Comment.

Welcome back to another exciting episode ofthe original Guru of good game, and I am your host, the originalguru himself, zero game. Thank you for coming back and thank you forkeeping listening. I want to give a shout out to everybody who listens andeverybody who listened and decided not to listen no more. I appreciate you listeningfor as long as you did and if you ever decide to come back,more than welcome you back and hope to hear from you again. Anyway.For everybody else, thank you so much for sticking around. Anyway, wegoing to get on this episode and we are continuing up on the good manguide series. So we are at this point the good man guy series.We are going to get dropped for you...

...this time the three pillars of goodman. Now, incidentally, these pillars work both sides of the sexes,so they work just as well for a good woman is they work for agood man. But let's get something established first. Now, the one thingI want to make clear, and I was trying to touch a little biton this one in the last episode, but it I might have got alittle bit, little bit too into it. You know, I kind of getreally carried away with this stuff sometimes. But Anyway, in the previous episodeI was trying to get more of a definition, to look for whatwould be a good man or a good woman, in a sense that youneed to look for that person that's a good man or good woman for you, not for everybody else, just for...

...you, and that's where I thinkthe disconnect is preventing people from actually finding a good man or a good woman, because I hear a lot of women complaining about there are no good men. We are out here, we have always been here. The problem isis that the basic image of the good man being promoted in the media todaytends to be superficial in nature and origin, and I think that's where that disconnectis coming in, because it's a pretty much like a cookie cutter generalizationof what a good man is spread this across the board and, as yousee, it does not always fit because they there are variances, there aresmall and little differences and intricate things that take place that makes each want aunique good man. But you have to look for the good man in themen that are there. We all here.

You just got to see us andyou have to see us for you, not for what your girlfriend likes orwhat your t like or what your cousin like or what your neighbor like. What is a good man for you? That is the main thing that youneed to hunt for, and the spirit of that, I wanted tohelp give you these three pillars. Now, this can apply to women and itcan apply to men, because, fellas, we need a good woman, and a good woman should had these three pillars to build on. Ifshe not working with these three pillars, then you might want to reevaluate whatclassification you might want to put her in a definition. I don't know howyou sort out your women. That's on you, but I'm gonna give youthese three pillars of a good man. Now you need to write them down. Get Your Pen and a pad. Write this shit down. Might wantto keep it in your wallet, memorize and putting on a little cards,sticking in your purse, making into a poster, stick it on your wall. I don't know what you got,...

...whatever you got to do to keepthese fresh in your mind on a daily basis, but always try to keepthese three pillars fresh in your mind, and this is how you can determinewhether you're dealing with a good man or a bad man and fellas. Thisis the three pillars that you need to have if you just choose, choose, remember, choose to be a good man. But before I drop thempillars, let me make this one thing clear. A good man or agood woman, they are not born, they are not created, they're nottrained, they're not made, they're not none of that shit. That impliessomething of a possession, and you cannot possess a person. You can't possesssomebody else's soul. All right, that's TV, fantasy, magic stuff.That's not reality. Reality is they are chosen because they choose to be agood man or a good woman. It's about the choice that you choose tomake on a daily basis. Anything that...

...you do in life is a choiceand every second of life gives you the opportunity to make a choice, agood choice or bad choice. It's always up to you. So you haveto look for that trait in people that they choose to be a good manor they choose to be a good woman, and not somebody to come with somecrap about they were made or born a good that's all bullshit. Nobodyis born good or bad. Is the choices that we make in life todetermine what station we choose to play. Am I going to play a goodguy or I'm going to play a bad guy? That's all there is toit. So now let's get back to these pillars, because I don't wantto they're off too. Far From It, because I want y'all to get thisshit and I want y'all to keep this shit and, like I said, write it down, tattooed on your arm, whatever you got to do, memorize it, putting on a flash...

...card, business card, t shirt, write it on you, James, I don't know what you need todo, but just do it all right. Here's the three pillars. First,one smart good man or good woman is intelligent, both academically and streetwise. They think of others feelings when making decisions, family friends, but youalways value their opinion. You may not act on it, but you willvalue what they say to you. See, that's a smart person. Will alwaysuse logical, intelligent thought before making actions that affect themselves and all thosepeople around them, especially the ones that you care about. And it's notreally enough smarts being put into a lot of the decisions people are making theday, only because we are in a society where most of the decision ismade for you. Get your ass up, come to this job, punching thisclock, do this tedious work,...

...punch out of that clock, takeyour ass home, sleep, eat, repeat. See Choices made for you. But, like I said, a good man or a good woman alwaysuse their prayings when they making these decisions. They consider other people that are intimatelyinvolved in their lives before they make a decision that would affect them andthe ones they love. Nowadays, you just got everybody. Hey, ifit affects me, fuck you. Only reason why I made that decision becauseit either benefited me or it wouldn't benefit me to do something for you prettymuch keep their mind at me, meet me, and only me, andif you can get something out of it in the process, then you betterget it while the opportunity is there, because I damn sure ain't about togive it to you, and that's something that prevents good men good women findingeach other, because we dancing through all...

...of these memes. It's a wholebunch of memes out here. Me, me, me, my mind,mind, and they kind of fill up the space. So when you tryingto find that good man a good woman. That kind of blocking the view andyou end up catching on to the illusion. And there's a lot ofillusion going on out here. You know, to fake it till you make it. Yeah, it's a whole bunch of them that's faking like they goodmen and good women until they make it with a good man or a goodwoman. Of course, by then they are so emotionally, mentally spiritually damagedthat when they actually do find that good man or that good woman, theyhave no idea how to be with a good man or a good woman.So we're going to help you out here by giving you these three pillars soyou know what to look for. If you never been with one, thenthis way, this will help you get one and it will also help youbecome a good man or a good woman...

...by practicing these three pillars. Sothe first pillar, smart. Got To be smart, got to have thembrains, got to use your brains. I'm not saying you need to goget you a PhD or doctorate or whatever. You know, you ain't got tobe a Sheldon Cooper, graduated college at Fourteen. I'm not saying anyof that. What I'm saying is is that you have to take the opportunityto increase your knowledge base. That's simply reading a couple of books, doinga little research that you might need to know about. Now, I can'ttell you what it is you need to know about. That's up to you. So you figured out what you need to know about, check your locallibrary, Google, you can definitely find whatever information you need to find.And if you can't find it or you need to hear it or speak tosomebody, look around ask questions. Intelligent questions will always get you an intelligentanswer. If you ask a dumb question, you still ask out either way,whether you get the question answered or...

...not. So we don't lead thatalone. Them smarts also have to be street smarts. have to have alittle street hustle, and it not so much that you need to be outhere hustling on the streets. I'm not saying that. What I'm saying isyou have to have street smarts to recognize what is street shit and what isgood shit. See, that's where that good game come in at, andyou have to develop that for yourself and what's happening generally on the streets,because if you go and you ain't paying attention and your mind ain't catching thehustle or the game or the bullshit they running under you, you will getgot them. Streets have no love for you. I'm to tell you thatright now. So make sure you got your street smarts on point. Getto know one or two that you can be cool with. The may haveyour back when needed and even if they aint got your back, at leastthey can guide you and give you a...

...little lowdown or what's going down.So I know not to be involved in any of that bullshit. And ifneed be, you might have to make a quick street hustle here and there. Now doesn't have to be nothing illegally with narcotics anything like that. Youknow, you might have come into a situation where you need a few extradollars to pay this bill or to cover this emergency situation. I got thisextra TV sitting in the back room I'm not using. Let me see ifI can find somebody out there want to give me a few bucks for it. Scratch you up a few dollars needed take care of emergency situation. Younever know what pops up when you might be a little short and you mightneed to make a phone call, bust the corner and hit the block,see your boy and throw them a couple of dollars if he can help youmove his joint. Sometimes Shit like that happens. You never know, buta good man will have them smarts to know how to deal with that andtwo smarts to recognize it to keep him and his family away from it,if that's what he so chooses. I'm...

...not saying you got to hide fromthese streets if you live near these streets or that's where your residence is,but you need to know how to maneuver and how to inner weave and walkthrough them streets without being the victim, pray or getting got. Good menknow that. So recognize that in a good man. All right, thatwas pillar number one. A pillar number two is you got to be areal man or real woman. Pillar number three, you got to be strong. We going to get in too number two next week and I'm explain toyou with in a real man real woman. Now you thinking like, well,ain't that a good man? Ain't that? Nope, good man andreal man are two different things and we going to get into a deep explanationon that next week. On the Og of good game with your host,the original guru zero game, and we...

...going to get into this good manguy series. So look out for me, because we going to be dropping itnext week seven PM, the original guru of good game with the goodman guys series. Thank you once again for listening. I hope you enjoyedthe show and I hope you got something out of this information. Learn yourtruth, speak the truth, live the truth only on the og of goodgame and we would love for you to give us some likes, some shares, some comments. You can go to our website, www dotoge good gamecomand you can click on the contact button at the top and on the contactpage please put in your email and you can write comment and send it directlyto us. Anyway, I would like to say everybody, enjoy the restof your day, your evening, your nightware over the part of the worldyou live it in. And I will...

...end this the way I always do, which is love, peace and hair grease, and I'm out.

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