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No SEX Relationships - How do you Define it?

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No Sex Relationship ! How do you define it ? How do Deal with it ? How do you Survive it ?Today I answer some of those questions, but need your answers to these same questions ! Maybe you have a question that I didn't cover, you would like an answer to. Call in your with Thoughts or Answers : 716-562-6975You can Email me : OGZeroGame@Gmail.comYou can goto the Website leave a voice message : www.OGGoodGame.comNext Week on "The O.G. of Good Game" --- Hook-Up Sites Review !!! Don't spend a penny, until you check this episode out first.Until then "Love, Peace, and Hair Grease ! "OGZ"

Welcome back to another exciting episode ofthe original Guru of good game. On today's episode no sex relationships. Howdo you define that, how do you classify that and, more importantly,how do your survive that? How you deal with it? We gonna getinto that right now. Welcome back, Ladies and gentlemen, to a anotherexciting episode of the original Guru of good game. I am your ost theoriginal guru himself. Zero game on to day's episode. People, we goingto talk about a no sex relationship. Sounds kind of weird, don't it? You in a relationship but you're not having sex. So how do youdefine that relationship? But first, before...

...we get into that less get intoa little definition here of what I'm talking about. When I say relationship,I ain't talking about you people who just met only been dating for like five, six months. I ain't talking about y'all. I'm also not talking aboutthe people it's been in a relationship for less than a year. I'm talkingabout the people who've been in a relationship for at least, at least twoyears and more, because we all know the first year, that's like thehoneymoon phase, first six and months. I mean we banging every day,two, three times a day, full, five, six, seven, timesa week. It's just bang, Bang Bang, Bang Bang, likelittle Bunnies, just Bang Bang, Bang, Bang Bang. That's always in thebeginning. But then things start to settle down and smooth out and bythe seventh or eighth month things kind of...

...relaxed a little bit, you know, each starting to do their own respective things outside of the bedroom. Hangwith your girls, he hang with his boys, or beending on whatever yoursexual orientation is. You know, it is what it is. Yeah,you know, like they say, absence makes the hurt grow fonder. So, you know, you little time away from each other. Just get outthere, you know, then you see each other and is bang, Bang, Bang, Bang Bang. You know what I'm saying. So I'm onlyspeaking about people who've been in a relationship for over two years. And onlyreason why it has to be over two years because you have have to bein a situation where you have not had sex for at least six months.Thirty days don't count, sixty days ain't shit. Ninety days. It's stressful, but that ain't really in no sex relationship. I mean if you getlaid every ninety days, then technically you and a re ship. You havingsex, just not often, but you...

...is having it. I'm talking aboutthe people who have not had sex a year or more into this no sexrelationship, and I mean a relationship where both parties involved understand that we arein a committed, monogamous relationship with each other. So this is not justwe hooking up or we friends with benefits. Those don't count. This has tobe a full on committed relationship. Now, whether you living together notis different story. In that kind of altars the variables in the no sexrelationship. But I'm, from my perspective right now, only speaking about peoplewho live together, because I mean that's kind of messed up, ain't it? You in a relationship with somebody, you get to watch they naked asswalk past you every day and knowing you ain't getting none of it. Youjust get the pleasure of looking at it.

They ain't gonna Gi your nothing.You going to try to get some and you're going to get shot downevery time. So why would somebody want to keep you in a relationship ifthey have no intentions on having sex with you anymore? Why would you putsomebody through that? Cit to me that's that's not love. I mean ifyou love me like you love a brother or sister, a cousin, avery dear friend, that's a different scenario and we could be in that typeof scenario if we are honest and we communicate with one another. But ifyou ain't saying Shit and you harboring some kind of psychological, emotional or spiritualissues that is preventing you from being intimate with me, then you don't reallygive a fuck about me. You might say you do, but you don'treally care about me, because you would allow me to go through this psychologicaland emotional trauma because you haven't fucking issues.

Instead of saying look, I'm havingsome issues now and is, you know, preventing me from wanting tobe intimate at the moment. Some give the other person something to work with. If you ain't getting me nothing to work with them, we got afucking problem. Because, see, that brings up a whole lot of otheravenues and issues. And if anybody out here going through a no sex relationship, please call into the show and let us know how you dealing with it, how long you've been in it or how long you've been out of onebecause you got tired of it and you left, and you can call theshow at one, six five, six, two, six nine, seven five. I'm going to repeat that. Seven one, six, five,six, two, six nine five. You can also send me an emailwith your respond it's to og zero game...

...at gmailcom. And, as always, you can go to the website Ogee good Gamecom and you can leave avoice message there and you can also just send me an email or sign upfor the email list and gives your contact information and will be more than happyto send you the questionnaire and then you can fill it out and send itback or you can send us an audio. However you want to do it,we would appreciate any way you do it. But getting back to theissue at hand, to me that is really an uncaring person, because theydon't care about what you going through in this situation. Only that. Tome, that's a selfish person who only thinks entirely of himself. Now,I'm not saying have sex with somebody and you don't want to have sex andyou doing it just to be doing it. That's pretty much even worse in myopinion, and I'm just saying in my opinion that's worse. It's badenough you don't want to have sex with me, but the only reason whyyou doing it is what to shut me up, to get me out ofyour face, to get me leave you...

...alone for a few days or something. I mean, don't do me any favors. If you not getting anyenjoyment out of it, then it really ain't no more than me jerking off, and we all know we all need a second person for that. Butthat just shows you how selfish individual is. Instead of communicating with you to informyou that I'm having issues and this is the reason why we are notintimate. Well, let somebody know that so they know how to deal withit or if they can deal with it. That's one of them situations people,where you know you got to really think about the other person. Youcan't just be selfish to yourself and Oh, I'm going through issues, I'm goingthrough problems just that nother when I go get that Shit fucking fixed,speak to somebody, see somebody, try to get to understand is the whatthe fuck is wrong with you? And just said of sitting around biting myhead off on every little thing or nitpicking or finding a whole host of otherthings to do, to do not include...

...any intimate time with me. Nowthat would really piss them off. A all, you don't want to havesex with me, but damage you can run with your girls, you cango to the buy, you can go to the club, you can goto concerts, you can do all this other shit, but when it comesdown to us having a loving, intimate moment, that's just ain't even inthe playbook. Now that's just wrong in so many ways. That's just wrongand y'all know that's wrong. How do you classify this relationship? I mean, if you've been in a relationship with somebody and you haven't had sex ina year, two years, three years, ten years, how do you classifyyour relationship? Now? If you married, that's a whole different scenario. That's for better or for worse. But if you not married, howdo you define your relationship? Is the person being neglected? Would they bewrong if they went out and got some sex from somebody else? I mean, you have no intention, engins ont touching me in that way. So, honestly, can you seriously be upset...

...that I got my needs met somewhereelse because you have no intention on meeting and see. Sometimes it helps ifyou have a conversation to say, well, look, I ain't about to meetyour needs anymore. All right. Well, do you have a problemwith me going to get my knees met somewhere else? Because there's no senseand being in a relationship if y'all not going to be intimate with one anotheron that type of relationship. It's better if y'all just say, look,we just going to break this relationship now to best friends and we going toleave it at that and we might be a friends with benefit every once ina blue moon, who knows, depending on how things, you know,progress along. But as far as it go, we just friends, bestfriends, and leave it at that. Instead of making someone obligated to arelationship. This not fully a relationship because without the sex part we don't havea full relationship. We have a partial...

...relationship and that don't usually work,does it? Please email me, send me a letter, call in,leave a voicemail, anything you got, because I want to hear y'all opinionson this. I want y'all to tell me what y'all think about this subject. I want to hear of anybody going through this and what you're dealing withgoing through it. So we can, you know, help those out who'sgoing through this and don't know what to do. I mean, I wentthrough it myself. Over, I ain't know what to do because when yougo through some shit like that, it makes you feel like you less thana person. You start doubting, you know, speaking from a man's pointof view, you start doubting your manhood, you start even doubting if you area man. You start doubting everything there is about yourself. You yourself esteem goes down, your Libido goes down, your pride is just obliterated, your self respect starts to do. It Ale away and before you knowit you just a sad old pervert. Nor lugging looking at it porn,day dreaming about the day's when you use...

...hot Shitt and you could do whatthey doing on there now, because you know, if you don't use it, you lose it. least that that's true for men. I don't Ican't speak for women, but for men, you don't use that mother lugging it, you will lose it. It's some muscle, like everything else,got to be exercised and worked out to keep it strong and flexible me.I just ended the relationship and went on and did me. That's the onlything I can recommend from what I went through to anybody else just going throughthis. That's the only recommendation I can give you. I don't know anyother ways to fix it. That's why I need some of you people outthere who have fixed it to hit me up and let me know so wecan pass this information on to those who suffering and weren't able to fix theyshit or in this situation and trying to figure out how to fix it.So once again I am going to say this. Please give me a callat see six hundred and five, six...

...two, six nine seven five,or you can send me a direct email at og zero game at gmailcom.Or you can go to the website you can leave a voice message or youcan hit the contact form and send me a direct message right there at wwwdotog good gamecom. Well, people, I'm going to end this episode theday on that high note and low note. and Oh yeah, before we end, as we don't start adding in a new section, I'm try towork this in on future episodes. It's going to be called the shit showreport and I'm going to try to incorporate. What is the latest shit show thisgoing on in America, and currently the shit showed is going on rightnow is with our Congress. Well, I sent it. Mitch mcconnald isa shit show, Lindsay Graham is a shit show, Ted cruise is ashit show, Josh Holly is a shit...

...show and there's quite a few moreshit show politicians that are just basically a shit show waiting to happen. AndI guarantee you there will be some future shit shows kicking off. So keepup and keep checking back for when we start doing the shit show report andwe'll give you a little indepth inside Info on what shit show is taking placein on naked woods. But for now we are going to end our episodeand next week's episode we are going to go we're going to hit you upon these hookup site reviews before you spend your money on any of these hookupsites, and I'm bringing this up because I know a lot of the peoplewho are in these no sex relationships. You won't get scammed by him.A lot of them are straight up scams. So come back next week and wegoing to talk about these hookup sites and we're going to try to getyour little perspective on how to navigate some...

...of these suckers and how to leavea lot of these suckers alone, because all a is designed to do istake yo money. And that'll be it for today on the Og of goodgame, and I'm going to end this episode like I end all my episodes. I know I'm in this episode and I'm going to say it as usual. Love, peace in head Greece, and I'm out.

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