Original Guru of Good Game
Original Guru of Good Game

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No SEX Relationships - How do you Define it?

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No Sex Relationship ! How do you define it ? How do Deal with it ? How do you Survive it ?Today I answer some of those questions, but need your answers to these same questions ! Maybe you have a question that I didn't cover, you would like an answer to. Call in your with Thoughts or Answers : 716-562-6975You can Email me : OGZeroGame@Gmail.comYou can goto the Website leave a voice message : www.OGGoodGame.comNext Week on "The O.G. of Good Game" --- Hook-Up Sites Review !!! Don't spend a penny, until you check this episode out first.Until then "Love, Peace, and Hair Grease ! "OGZ"

Welcome back to another exciting episode of the original Guru of good game. On today's episode no sex relationships. How do you define that, how do you classify that and, more importantly, how do your survive that? How you deal with it? We gonna get into that right now. Welcome back, Ladies and gentlemen, to a another exciting episode of the original Guru of good game. I am your ost the original guru himself. Zero game on to day's episode. People, we going to talk about a no sex relationship. Sounds kind of weird, don't it? You in a relationship but you're not having sex. So how do you define that relationship? But first, before...

...we get into that less get into a little definition here of what I'm talking about. When I say relationship, I ain't talking about you people who just met only been dating for like five, six months. I ain't talking about y'all. I'm also not talking about the people it's been in a relationship for less than a year. I'm talking about the people who've been in a relationship for at least, at least two years and more, because we all know the first year, that's like the honeymoon phase, first six and months. I mean we banging every day, two, three times a day, full, five, six, seven, times a week. It's just bang, Bang Bang, Bang Bang, like little Bunnies, just Bang Bang, Bang, Bang Bang. That's always in the beginning. But then things start to settle down and smooth out and by the seventh or eighth month things kind of...

...relaxed a little bit, you know, each starting to do their own respective things outside of the bedroom. Hang with your girls, he hang with his boys, or beending on whatever your sexual orientation is. You know, it is what it is. Yeah, you know, like they say, absence makes the hurt grow fonder. So, you know, you little time away from each other. Just get out there, you know, then you see each other and is bang, Bang, Bang, Bang Bang. You know what I'm saying. So I'm only speaking about people who've been in a relationship for over two years. And only reason why it has to be over two years because you have have to be in a situation where you have not had sex for at least six months. Thirty days don't count, sixty days ain't shit. Ninety days. It's stressful, but that ain't really in no sex relationship. I mean if you get laid every ninety days, then technically you and a re ship. You having sex, just not often, but you...

...is having it. I'm talking about the people who have not had sex a year or more into this no sex relationship, and I mean a relationship where both parties involved understand that we are in a committed, monogamous relationship with each other. So this is not just we hooking up or we friends with benefits. Those don't count. This has to be a full on committed relationship. Now, whether you living together not is different story. In that kind of altars the variables in the no sex relationship. But I'm, from my perspective right now, only speaking about people who live together, because I mean that's kind of messed up, ain't it? You in a relationship with somebody, you get to watch they naked ass walk past you every day and knowing you ain't getting none of it. You just get the pleasure of looking at it.

They ain't gonna Gi your nothing. You going to try to get some and you're going to get shot down every time. So why would somebody want to keep you in a relationship if they have no intentions on having sex with you anymore? Why would you put somebody through that? Cit to me that's that's not love. I mean if you love me like you love a brother or sister, a cousin, a very dear friend, that's a different scenario and we could be in that type of scenario if we are honest and we communicate with one another. But if you ain't saying Shit and you harboring some kind of psychological, emotional or spiritual issues that is preventing you from being intimate with me, then you don't really give a fuck about me. You might say you do, but you don't really care about me, because you would allow me to go through this psychological and emotional trauma because you haven't fucking issues.

Instead of saying look, I'm having some issues now and is, you know, preventing me from wanting to be intimate at the moment. Some give the other person something to work with. If you ain't getting me nothing to work with them, we got a fucking problem. Because, see, that brings up a whole lot of other avenues and issues. And if anybody out here going through a no sex relationship, please call into the show and let us know how you dealing with it, how long you've been in it or how long you've been out of one because you got tired of it and you left, and you can call the show at one, six five, six, two, six nine, seven five. I'm going to repeat that. Seven one, six, five, six, two, six nine five. You can also send me an email with your respond it's to og zero game...

...at gmailcom. And, as always, you can go to the website Ogee good Gamecom and you can leave a voice message there and you can also just send me an email or sign up for the email list and gives your contact information and will be more than happy to send you the questionnaire and then you can fill it out and send it back or you can send us an audio. However you want to do it, we would appreciate any way you do it. But getting back to the issue at hand, to me that is really an uncaring person, because they don't care about what you going through in this situation. Only that. To me, that's a selfish person who only thinks entirely of himself. Now, I'm not saying have sex with somebody and you don't want to have sex and you doing it just to be doing it. That's pretty much even worse in my opinion, and I'm just saying in my opinion that's worse. It's bad enough you don't want to have sex with me, but the only reason why you doing it is what to shut me up, to get me out of your face, to get me leave you...

...alone for a few days or something. I mean, don't do me any favors. If you not getting any enjoyment out of it, then it really ain't no more than me jerking off, and we all know we all need a second person for that. But that just shows you how selfish individual is. Instead of communicating with you to inform you that I'm having issues and this is the reason why we are not intimate. Well, let somebody know that so they know how to deal with it or if they can deal with it. That's one of them situations people, where you know you got to really think about the other person. You can't just be selfish to yourself and Oh, I'm going through issues, I'm going through problems just that nother when I go get that Shit fucking fixed, speak to somebody, see somebody, try to get to understand is the what the fuck is wrong with you? And just said of sitting around biting my head off on every little thing or nitpicking or finding a whole host of other things to do, to do not include...

...any intimate time with me. Now that would really piss them off. A all, you don't want to have sex with me, but damage you can run with your girls, you can go to the buy, you can go to the club, you can go to concerts, you can do all this other shit, but when it comes down to us having a loving, intimate moment, that's just ain't even in the playbook. Now that's just wrong in so many ways. That's just wrong and y'all know that's wrong. How do you classify this relationship? I mean, if you've been in a relationship with somebody and you haven't had sex in a year, two years, three years, ten years, how do you classify your relationship? Now? If you married, that's a whole different scenario. That's for better or for worse. But if you not married, how do you define your relationship? Is the person being neglected? Would they be wrong if they went out and got some sex from somebody else? I mean, you have no intention, engins ont touching me in that way. So, honestly, can you seriously be upset...

...that I got my needs met somewhere else because you have no intention on meeting and see. Sometimes it helps if you have a conversation to say, well, look, I ain't about to meet your needs anymore. All right. Well, do you have a problem with me going to get my knees met somewhere else? Because there's no sense and being in a relationship if y'all not going to be intimate with one another on that type of relationship. It's better if y'all just say, look, we just going to break this relationship now to best friends and we going to leave it at that and we might be a friends with benefit every once in a blue moon, who knows, depending on how things, you know, progress along. But as far as it go, we just friends, best friends, and leave it at that. Instead of making someone obligated to a relationship. This not fully a relationship because without the sex part we don't have a full relationship. We have a partial...

...relationship and that don't usually work, does it? Please email me, send me a letter, call in, leave a voicemail, anything you got, because I want to hear y'all opinions on this. I want y'all to tell me what y'all think about this subject. I want to hear of anybody going through this and what you're dealing with going through it. So we can, you know, help those out who's going through this and don't know what to do. I mean, I went through it myself. Over, I ain't know what to do because when you go through some shit like that, it makes you feel like you less than a person. You start doubting, you know, speaking from a man's point of view, you start doubting your manhood, you start even doubting if you are a man. You start doubting everything there is about yourself. You your self esteem goes down, your Libido goes down, your pride is just obliterated, your self respect starts to do. It Ale away and before you know it you just a sad old pervert. Nor lugging looking at it porn, day dreaming about the day's when you use...

...hot Shitt and you could do what they doing on there now, because you know, if you don't use it, you lose it. least that that's true for men. I don't I can't speak for women, but for men, you don't use that mother lugging it, you will lose it. It's some muscle, like everything else, got to be exercised and worked out to keep it strong and flexible me. I just ended the relationship and went on and did me. That's the only thing I can recommend from what I went through to anybody else just going through this. That's the only recommendation I can give you. I don't know any other ways to fix it. That's why I need some of you people out there who have fixed it to hit me up and let me know so we can pass this information on to those who suffering and weren't able to fix they shit or in this situation and trying to figure out how to fix it. So once again I am going to say this. Please give me a call at see six hundred and five, six...

...two, six nine seven five, or you can send me a direct email at og zero game at gmailcom. Or you can go to the website you can leave a voice message or you can hit the contact form and send me a direct message right there at www dotog good gamecom. Well, people, I'm going to end this episode the day on that high note and low note. and Oh yeah, before we end, as we don't start adding in a new section, I'm try to work this in on future episodes. It's going to be called the shit show report and I'm going to try to incorporate. What is the latest shit show this going on in America, and currently the shit showed is going on right now is with our Congress. Well, I sent it. Mitch mcconnald is a shit show, Lindsay Graham is a shit show, Ted cruise is a shit show, Josh Holly is a shit...

...show and there's quite a few more shit show politicians that are just basically a shit show waiting to happen. And I guarantee you there will be some future shit shows kicking off. So keep up and keep checking back for when we start doing the shit show report and we'll give you a little indepth inside Info on what shit show is taking place in on naked woods. But for now we are going to end our episode and next week's episode we are going to go we're going to hit you up on these hookup site reviews before you spend your money on any of these hookup sites, and I'm bringing this up because I know a lot of the people who are in these no sex relationships. You won't get scammed by him. A lot of them are straight up scams. So come back next week and we going to talk about these hookup sites and we're going to try to get your little perspective on how to navigate some...

...of these suckers and how to leave a lot of these suckers alone, because all a is designed to do is take yo money. And that'll be it for today on the Og of good game, and I'm going to end this episode like I end all my episodes. I know I'm in this episode and I'm going to say it as usual. Love, peace in head Greece, and I'm out.

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