Original Guru of Good Game
Original Guru of Good Game

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No SEX Relationships - How do you Define it?

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No Sex Relationship ! How do you define it ? How do Deal with it ? How do you Survive it ?Today I answer some of those questions, but need your answers to these same questions ! Maybe you have a question that I didn't cover, you would like an answer to. Call in your with Thoughts or Answers : 716-562-6975You can Email me : OGZeroGame@Gmail.comYou can goto the Website leave a voice message : www.OGGoodGame.comNext Week on "The O.G. of Good Game" --- Hook-Up Sites Review !!! Don't spend a penny, until you check this episode out first.Until then "Love, Peace, and Hair Grease ! "OGZ"

Welcome back to another excitingepisode of the original Guru of good game on to day's episode, no sex relationships. How do you define that? How do youclassify that and, more importantly, how do you survive that? How you dealwith it? We Goin't get into that right. Now. Welcome back, Ladies and gentlemen, toa another, exciting episode of the original Guru of good game. I am yourholds. The original Guru himself, zero game on to day's episode. People we going totalk about a no sex relationship, sons, kind of weird. Don't it you in a relationship but you're nothaving sex. So how do you define that...

...relationship, but first before we getinto that, let's get into a little definition here of what I'm talkingabout when I say relationship, I ain't talking about you, people who just metonly been dating for like five six months. I ain't talking about you, I'm also not talking about the people.That's been in a relationship for less than a year. I'm talking about thepeople who've been in a relationship for at least at least two years andmore because we all know the first year. That's like the honeymoon phase. First,six months I mean we hang it every day, two threetimes a day for five six seven times a week is justbank bang, Bang Bang Bank like little Bunnies, just in bank Dan, Dan Dan,that's always in the beginning. But then things start to settle downand smooth out and by the seventh or eighth moth things kind of relax alittle bit. You know each starting to...

...do their own respective things outsideof the bed. Room hang with your girls. He hang with his boys or depending onwhatever your sexual orientation. Is. You know it is what it is yeah you knowlike they say, absence makes the heart grow fonder. So you know you a littletime away from each other just get out there. You know, then you see each other and is BangBang, Bang, Bang, Bang! You know what I'm saying so, I'm only speaking aboutpeople who've been in a relationship for over two years and only reason why it has to be overtwo years because you have have to be in a situation where youhave not had sex for at least six months. Thirty days, don't count sixty days,ain't shit. Ninety days is stressful, but that ain't really inno sex relationship. I mean, if you get laid every ninetydays, then technically you in a relationship. You have a sex just notoften, but you is having it I'm talking...

...about the people who have not had sex ayear or more into this. No sex relationship, and I mean a relationship where bothparties involved understand that we are in a committed, monogamous relationshipwith each other. So this is not just we hooking up or wefriends with benefits those don't count. This has to be a full on committedrelationship. Now, whether you living together or not, is a different storyin that kind of alters the variables in the no sex relationship. But I'm from my perspective right now, I'm onlyspeaking about people who live together, because I mean that's kind of messed upain't. It you, in a relationship with somebody you get to watch the naked ass,walk past you every day and knowing you ain't getting none of it, you just getthe pleasure of looking at it.

They ain't gonna, give you nothingyou're going to try to get some and you're going to get shot down everytime. So why would somebody want to keep youin a relationship if they have no intentions on having sex with youanymore? Why would you put somebody through thats? To me? That's that's not love! I mean if you love me, like you, love abrother, a sister, a cousin, a very dear friend, that's a differentscenario, and we could be in that type of scenario if we are honest and wecommunicate with one another. But if you ain't saying Shit and you harboringsome kind of psychological, emotional or spiritualissues that is preventing you from being intimate with me that you don'treally give a fuck about me. You might say you do, but you don't really careabout me, because you would allow me to go through this psychological andemotional trauma, because you have the...

...fucking issues instead of saying, look,I'm having some issues now and it's you know preventing me from wanting to beintimate at the moment. Some give the other person something to work with. Ifyou ain't giving me nothing to work with them, we got a fucking problembecause he that brings up a whole lot of other avenues and issues and if anybody out here going through ano sex relationship, please call into the show- and let us know how youdealing with it, how long you been in it or how long you been out of one,because you got tired of it and you left and you can call the show at sevenhundred six five, six, two six nine seven five will repeat that: seven, one,six, five! Six! Two: Six: Nine seven five. You can also send me an emailwith your response to o g zero game at...

...g Malcom and is always you can go tothe website, O g good game com and you can leave a waste message there and youcan also just send me an email or sign up for the email list and gives youcontact information and will be more than happy to send you thequestionnaire and then you can fill it out and send it back or you can send usan audio. However, you want to do it. We would appreciate any way you do it,but getting back to the issue at hand to me that is really an uncaring personbecause they don't care about what you going through in this situation. Theonly that to me that's a selfish person who only thinks entirely of himself.Now, I'm not saying I have sex with somebody and you don't want to have sexand you doing it just to be doing it. That's pretty much even worse. In myopinion- and I'm just saying in my opinion- that's worse, it's bad enough!You don't want to have sex with me, but the only reason why you doing it iswhat to shut me up to get me out of your face to get me. Leave you alonefor a few days or something I mean.

Don't do me any favors. If you notgetting any enjoyment out of it, then it really ain't no more than me jerkingoff and we all know we don't need a second person for that, but that just shows you how selfishindividual is, instead of communicating with you to inform you that I'm havingissues- and this is the reason why we are not intimate well, let somebodyknow that so they know how to deal with it or if they can deal with it. That'sone of them situations, people where you know you got to really think aboutthe other person. You can't just be selfish to yourself and oh I'm goingthrough issues I'm going through problems this that not want to go, getthat Shit, fucking fixed, speak to somebody see somebody try to get aunderstand as to what the fuck is wrong with you, and instead of sitting aroundbiting my head off on every little thing or knit picking or finding awhole host of other things to do to do...

...not include any intimate time with menow that would really piss them off O al. You don't want to have sex with me,but damage you can run with your girls. You go to the by you can go to the club.You can go consens, you can do all this other shit, but when it come down to ushaving a loving intimate moment, that's just ain't, even in the play book. Now,that's just wrong in so many ways. That's just wrong and y'all know that'swrong. How do you classify this relationship? I mean, if you've been in arelationship with somebody and your having had sex in a year two years,three years, ten years? How do you classify your relationshipnow if you marry that's a whole different scenario? That's for betteror for worse, but if you not marry, how do you defineyour relationship? Is the person being neglected? Would they be wrong if theywent out and got some sex from somebody else? I mean you have no intentions ontouching me in that way. So, honestly,...

...can you seriously be upset that I gotmy needs met somewhere else, because you have no intention on meeting see.Sometimes it helps if you have a conversation to say well, look I ain'tabout to meet your needs anymore, all right! Well, do you have a problem withme going to get my knees met somewhere else, because there's no sense in being in arelationship if you're not going to be intimate with one another on that typeof relationship? It's better. If y'all just say, look wejust going to break this relationship now to best friends and we going toleave it at that and we might be a friends with benefit every once in ablue moon who knows, depending on how things you knowprogress along, but as far as it go, we just friendsbest friends and leave it at that. Instead of making someone obligated toa relationship, this not fully a relationship because without the sex part we don'thave a full relationship, we have a...

...partial relationship and that don'tusually work. Does it please email me send me a letter callin leave a voice mail. Anything you got because I want to hear you all opinionson this. I want you all to tell me what I'll think about this subject. I wantto hear of anybody going through this, so what you're dealing with goingthrough it? So we can, you know, help those out who's going through this anddon't know what to do. I mean I went through it myself. I ain't know what todo, because when you go through some shit like that, it makes you feel likeyou less than a person, you start doubting. You know, speaking from aman's point of view, you start doubting your man o, you start even doubting. Ifyou are a man, you start doubting everything. There is about yourself.Your your Self Stan goes down. Your labit goes down. Your pride is justobliterated. Your self respect starts to dwindle away and before you know it,you just a sad old, pervert logan looking at Porn Day dreaming about thedays when you use hot shit and you...

...could do what they doing on there now,because you know, if you don't use it, you lose it at least that that's truefor men. I can't speak for women, but for men you don't use that Mibu. If youwill lose it, it's a muscle like everything else got to be exercised andworked out to keep it strong and flexible me. I just ended the relationship andwent on and did me that's the only thing I can recommend from what I went through to anybodyelse. Just going through this, that's the only recommendation I can give you.I don't know any other ways to fix it. That's why I need some of you, peopleout there who have fixed it to hit me up, and let me know so. We can passthis information on to those who suffering and weren't able to fix theirshit or in this situation and trying to figure out how to fix it. So once again, I am going to say this.Please give me a call at seven hundred and six five, six, two six, nine sevenfive or you can send me a direct email...

...at o g zero game at Gmail or you can goto the website. You can leave a voice message or you can hit the contact formand send me a direct message right there at www, dot, O g, Good Game Com, well, people I'm going to in thisepisode to day. On that high note and low note and Oh yeah before we end aswe won't start adding in a new section, I'm gonna try to work descend on futureepisodes is going to be called. The Shit Show report and I'm going to try to incorporate what is the latest shitshow that's going on in America, and currently the shit show that's going onright. Now is what Congress will I sent it Mitch? McConnell is a shit show Lindsay,Graham, is a shit show Ted cruise is a...

...shit show Josh Holly is a shit show andthere's quite a few more shit show politicians did are just basically ashit show waiting to happen, and I guarantee you there will be some futureshit shows kicking off so keep up and keep checking back forwhen we start doing the shit show report and we'll give you a little indepth inside and fold on what Shit show is taking place in your Nakae Woods, but for now we're a going to end ourepisode and next week's episode. We are going to go we're Goin to hit you up onthese hook up site reviews before you spend your money on any of these hookup sites and I'm bringing this up because I knowa lot of the people who are in these no sex relationships. You Gon t getscammed by him. A lot of them are straight up, scams so come back nextweek and we going to talk about these hook up sites and we're going to try toget your little perspective on how to...

...navigate some of these suckers and howto leave a lot of these suckers along because all thesis designed to do istake your money and that'll, be it for today on the Og of good game and I'mgoing to end this episode. Like I end all my episodes, I know I'm in thisepisode and I'm going to say it is usual, love, peace and her grease and I'm out a.

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