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Original Guru of Good Game
Original Guru of Good Game

Episode · 1 year ago

Good Man Guide Pillar #3

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Back with Pillar #3 --- You must be Strong in Mind, Spirit, Emotions, & Body. The Choice to be a Good Man or Woman is always up to you.

Welcome back to another exciting episode ofthe original Guru of good game, and I am your host, the originalguru himself, zero game. I want to thank you all for listening andI do appreciate it. I really do have much love for you for showingme so much love as you have. I just don't know how to putit in words. I wish I can give you a big hug, becauseI want to send a hug out to everybody who is still listening, andI want to send a hug out to those who listen and decided not tolisten anymore. I appreciate you listening for as long as you did and ifyou not finding what you listening for out there, please come back with loveto have you listen again. Now today we going to get into our goodman and guide series. That's right, the good man guide series, andthe good man guide is going to upgrade your good man gag. Well,now listen, this can apply to both men and women, but since I'ma man, I'm going to pretty much refer to everything is a good man, but it can apply on the other side to a good woman. Sowe're going to get back to the three principles or the three pillars, orwhatever you want to call them. I really don't care. Just as longas you get with the meaning and the point that I'm trying to put outhere. All right, so long as...

...that's happening, I could care lesswhat you call but just long as you use them. Now we on numberthree, and number three is probably one of the most important ones, butnot the most important one. I mean all of these work together. Whenyou put them all together, boom you got a good man, because,remember, being a good man or good woman is a choice. Just rememberthat. So now we on to pillar number three, and pillar number threeis strength. You have to be strong. Let's get into that a little bit, because I want to make sure that everybody is clarified on the definitionsof strength, and I'm talking about because there are different levels. Now,the first level were going to talk about is you got to be mentally strong, and you have to choose that. You want to have a strong mind, because a strong line will prevent you from getting into bad situations. Itwill prevent a lot of bad feelings emotions to permeate into the situation that youmight be in. You know, depending on how it works out, whetherthey got kids, don't have kids, and see, that's that's a mentaltoughness that you're going to need dare to deal with. If you dealing withsomebody who already has children, you have to be mentally strong to know thatwhere your place is in that relationship. You have to be mentally strong toknow that these are not your children and you're going to have to treat themas if they are your children. And that takes the mental strength because you'regoing to have to apply certain aspects of your life to take care of theirlife. You have to make compromises, you're going to have to do withoutbecause you going to make sure that they're okay. See, that's a mentalchoice. You got to choose to do that and, believe me, there'senough kids out here to tell you that Stepmommy stepdaddy chose not to do that. Plenty of them, system full of them. Just look around. Youmight even find some of your own family...

...and some of your own neighborhood,but just look around, you'll find them. And that's the choice and you haveto make that mental choice that I am going to be strong for thesechildren mentally. I'm going to support them emotionally. I'm going to support themmentally. I'm going to make sure that they're okay. I'm going to makesure that I consider them before I make a decision or moved, to makesure that they are okay and taking care of, not because I'm trying toreplace their father or their mother, but because I choose to do a goodthing for these children, and that's a good thing to do. Like Isaid, some people they don't make that choice. They get selfish, theythink about nobody but themselves and what they want, and the hell with everybodyelse. That's something really important that we all need to get with, reallyimportant. You need to make sure your mind is mentally strong enough to dealwith the situation that you bought to get into. Now, let's say thereis no children involved and it's just you and somebody else, and you knowwhere you got to be mentally strong there too, because these people that youare dealing with may have expectations or they might have a preconceived idea about you, and you're going to have to be mentally strong to show them who youtruly are. And you got to be willing to show who you truly are. Now I on me. You just run out and start telling all yourbusiness to anybody to come along and ask a question. That means that youhave the mental fortitude and the strength to know when to allow information to bereleased and when not to. But you have to make or that you choosing, that what you do is right for you. Always remember that when itcomes down to being a good man or a good woman, or finding agood man or a good woman, it's always about choice. It will alwaysbe about choice every second of every moment of your life. You have theoption of choice to do the right thing...

...or the wrong thing. It's upto you, and that same option applies to when you want to be agood man or a good woman. You have to make that choice, butyou have to know when to make that choice, and sometimes that's going tocause a little mental toughness because you might have to give up some tough loveto some people that you really didn't want to do that too, but thatjust might be the reality of the situation. I'm have to hit you with sometough love and you have to be mentally strong to go ahead and dothat tough love, because sometimes you know, you look at somebody that you careabout, it you love or it's that another and it's kind of hardto get them tough love, but sometimes that is what is required and youmay have to make that tough decision to do that, and that's where thatmental toughness come in. That's where that mental strength come in. You gotto have at now we're going to move on a little bit more, andyou got to have emotional strength, and that's really important because if you notemotionally strong, a lot of this stuff can destroy you. It will damageyou, to send you to the nuthouse with a nervous breakdown, and younot emotionally strong. That emotional strength comes in in more ways than you canpossibly imagine, because sometimes you might be upset, but you have to bestrong in your emotions to have control over them and say I'm going to putthis to the side or on the back burner and I'm going to go aheadand do what I need to do and not upset other family members or peoplearound your coworkers, whatever it is it situation you in, you may haveto do that and that might be a little bit emotionally taxing, because sometimesyou don't have to hold in your own feelings about somebody doing something wrong somebodydoing something stupid, but it may require you that you can have to keepyour emotions in and check and take care of the situation. In some instancesyou'll be seen, you might see someone saying something this is just offensive toyou. You have to be emotionally strong...

...and suppress that anger in order tohave a positive outcome in the end. Too many people allowed emotions to getthe better of them and make the decision for them. Whenever you make adecision out of emotion and there's no logic or thought put in behind it beforeyou use that emotion for that, you always end up in the bad,worst situation than you are or you will fuck up a good situation. Andthat's just the honest guy truth. I'd been down that road a few timesmyself and I have learned do not make my decisions based off my emotions,unless we bought to get butt naked in the bed and start humping. Thenit's all emotion making a decision there and few other things making decisions, butthat's another conversation. But just keep that in mind that you have to beemotionally strong, especially if you dealing with somebody who got children. You haveto have emotional strength for them children, because it's going to be times wheremommy or daddy didn't come pick them up, or they got a bully at schoolor somebody made them feel bad or somebody hurt their feelings, and they'regoing to come home or come to you and they're going to be an emotionalsituation and you got to be emotionally strong to help them through it. Now, I'm not saying replace their parents, I'm just saying you got to bethere for them emotionally when they need you to. They going to need youto show them love when they need it, but they also going to need youto show them discipline when needed. And you got to be emotionally strongto not let your emotions get the better of you when you making them decisions, because you don't want to let your emotions get the better you and thekid knock over a bowl of milk or flour something, then your emotions getthe better you. Next thing you know, you beating the hell out of them. That's not a situation that requires that type of emotional content. Soyou got to have that shit in check. Make sure you keep it in checkand on the relationship tip alone, you won't want to be emotionally strong. I mean you don't want somebody playing...

...with your emotions and then, youknow, play with your head and then kick you to the current. Soyou got to have that strength to you know, that emotional strength and notlet somebody make you believe that they have these certain kind of feelings and emotionsfor you and then you open yourself up to them and then find out allit was all just an act, it was just playing you. That's wherethe mental strength come in. The peep that Shit. See what I'm saying? You getting it now. Put all that shit together. All right.And now you have to be spiritually strong, because life will rob the spirit rightout of you. One day, you happy person, life is beautiful, everything's great, the future is going to be wonderful, and then thenext thing you know, life is shit. It's all going to hell. Ain'tno future. This is fucked up and that can happen. I knowthey some people. You know, it's something chemical and balancing the brain.They call it bipolar disorder. I understand that, believe me. I understandthat better than most. But anyway, it's still people who one minute thespirit is up, couple of days later. Spirit is now and for the peoplearound you, especially once again when you dealing with children, you're goingto have to be spiritually strong to keep that positive spirit going and keep thatbright and sunny disposition and that everything is going to be okay as to toif you want to keep your kids mentality safe, in their emotional stability safe. So you may have to once again suppress some emotions and be spiritually strongand show them that everything is better than what it is. And that takessome work and that takes a serious choice, because you don't have to choose todo that. That's some shit. You just not going to I'll doit anyway am now. You can't do it that way. It'll ca Imean, people will recognize that you just bullshit and I hope that me doingthis info on the three pillars of what a good man is, I hopepeople will pay attention to this and start taking a look, a hard look, at some of the people are sending a life who playing like they're goodman. Like I said, a real...

...man can be mistaken for a goodman. In a lot of that's happening. Yeah, mistaken a real man forgood man. Those are not the same. But the weird thing isa real man is not always a good man, but a good man isalways a real man. Yeah, I'Mna let y'all go figure that one outon your own. And the last and final one in the strength category physicalstrength. Get Your Shit together. I don't care if you doing pilates,yoga, billy blanks, tide blocks, p ninety x, you lifting weights, you Brazilian booty bounce, I don't care what it is you doing.You jogging, you bicycling, you running, get into some physical act activity toimprove your physical strength, because there's going to be times when your strengthis going to be tested physically. Like I said, if you're dealing withchildren, if that's not a time when they get a little bit bigger theass and think they can throw you down and knock you down, you mighthave to throw a little strength back on them. Let them know old look, I ain't gonna beat on you, but damn I ain't gonna let youbeat on me either. So you can get that shit out your head.Then there may be times you might need to defend them against somebody trying tobeat the hell out of and that might require physical strength. You might bein a situation yourself will you may need to defend yourself. That requires alittle physical strength. So I'm telling y'all, take a karate class, judo,kick boxing, savived Sam Bol, I'm giving shit what it is.Take something, get your shit right, because the confidence that you will build, along with the physical strength that you develop, is going to improve youroverall condition all the way around. I promise you it will. I guaranteeit will. But just keep that in mind. And the reason why Ileft the physical at the last is because it's not always requirement to get inthe physical confrontation, but sometimes you know you just can't get out of itand some people just determine to cause you physical harm. Now you can eithertake the ass whooping and live another day to talk about it, or youcan defend yourself from taking the ASS whooping,...

...but that's your choice. I'm notrecommending physical altercations, but just in case one come up, you wantto at least know. If I don't win the fight, at least theother person know they was in a fight. It wasn't the one side to fight. You'll ass going to the hospital to just like I am. Thatis my whole thing with me. There's no such thing as whooping my assand walking away. If you woop my ass, that means that you leftthe hospital before I did, because, damn it, we both going.I guarantee you that we both going to the hospital now. Whether they dischargeyou first and not is determined. Who wanted to fight, as far asI'm concerned. Oh, they let him leave a couple hours before. Okay, all I well, he can call chalk this up as he won tofight, but I bet you your ass going to be up in in thathospital emergency room, right along next to my ass, if we ain't inthe same damn ambulance on the way there. I guarantee you we going to bothbe in hospital. In the story, that's a matter of developing physical strength, you know, as a martial artist, so I took up alot of martial arts develop my skills. The discipliney gave me mentally, emotionallyspiritually allows me to be who I am today, and it also allows meto know when they get in the physical confrontation and when to just turn aroundand walk away, because, see, that takes more mental strength, inemotional strength and actually getting into a fight and that's the one thing you gotto learn about a good man in the difference between the real man. Agood man will use his mental and emotional strength to turn and walk away andsay physical violence is not going to solve anything. A real man will standhis ground and whoop Yo ass if he can, or take an ass whooping, because it's going to be one of the two, but he gonna standing. He going to stand his ground, male or female, they gonna standtheir ground. But that's not always the best route to take, depending onthe situation, and that's where that mental strength come in to evaluate the situationand figure out which one you end and then use that spiritual strength to eitherresolve the situation or walk away. Always...

...can pick one of the two,but you have a choice. Just make sure you exercise your choice. Well, that is going to do it for me for right now. We goingto be back next week. It's probably some more nuggets on this good manguys series, because I want to keep this going. I want to helpas many women out here find a good man and I want as many menout here figure out how to be a good man, and hopefully that'll bringsome good men and some good women together and have some good children so wecan have a good generation of children growing up that's going to look forward tobeing good people and shepherds of the planet, because we going to need a lotof them in the coming future. Believe me, we gonna need alot of them. So let's get creative people and let's start creating paradise hereon earth for us all. Now, if you get a chance, goto my website, www dotog good gamecom, and you can comment about today's episodeor any past episodes. You can also listen to any previous episodes,any the episodes of the first two season. Is All available for you right thenand there in the third season, so feel free to come on inand listen anytime you want. Got Some links on the air for some energyback currency and stuff like that. Just few things. I'm going to beputting some more links on there and updating that damn store. I mean thepeople that they were supposed to been doing my website. That was the bestthey did. Good thing I didn't pay for that. So I'm working onit myself. It's just taking a little longer than I expected, but itwill be improved shortly and if you want to leave a comment about the showtoday once again, go to www dot og good gamecom, click on thecontact us button and then just put in your email and then the common section, leave a comment of what you thought and I'll make sure I read everysingle one of them. So I am going to end tonight's episode well,you know how in my episodes, like always in my episodes, love,peace in air, Greece.

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