Original Guru of Good Game
Original Guru of Good Game

Episode · 1 year ago

Good Man Guide Pillar #3

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Back with Pillar #3 --- You must be Strong in Mind, Spirit, Emotions, & Body. The Choice to be a Good Man or Woman is always up to you.

Welcome back to another exciting episode of the original Guru of good game, and I am your host, the original guru himself, zero game. I want to thank you all for listening and I do appreciate it. I really do have much love for you for showing me so much love as you have. I just don't know how to put it in words. I wish I can give you a big hug, because I want to send a hug out to everybody who is still listening, and I want to send a hug out to those who listen and decided not to listen anymore. I appreciate you listening for as long as you did and if you not finding what you listening for out there, please come back with love to have you listen again. Now today we going to get into our good man and guide series. That's right, the good man guide series, and the good man guide is going to upgrade your good man gag. Well, now listen, this can apply to both men and women, but since I'm a man, I'm going to pretty much refer to everything is a good man, but it can apply on the other side to a good woman. So we're going to get back to the three principles or the three pillars, or whatever you want to call them. I really don't care. Just as long as you get with the meaning and the point that I'm trying to put out here. All right, so long as...

...that's happening, I could care less what you call but just long as you use them. Now we on number three, and number three is probably one of the most important ones, but not the most important one. I mean all of these work together. When you put them all together, boom you got a good man, because, remember, being a good man or good woman is a choice. Just remember that. So now we on to pillar number three, and pillar number three is strength. You have to be strong. Let's get into that a little bit, because I want to make sure that everybody is clarified on the definitions of strength, and I'm talking about because there are different levels. Now, the first level were going to talk about is you got to be mentally strong, and you have to choose that. You want to have a strong mind, because a strong line will prevent you from getting into bad situations. It will prevent a lot of bad feelings emotions to permeate into the situation that you might be in. You know, depending on how it works out, whether they got kids, don't have kids, and see, that's that's a mental toughness that you're going to need dare to deal with. If you dealing with somebody who already has children, you have to be mentally strong to know that where your place is in that relationship. You have to be mentally strong to know that these are not your children and you're going to have to treat them as if they are your children. And that takes the mental strength because you're going to have to apply certain aspects of your life to take care of their life. You have to make compromises, you're going to have to do without because you going to make sure that they're okay. See, that's a mental choice. You got to choose to do that and, believe me, there's enough kids out here to tell you that Stepmommy stepdaddy chose not to do that. Plenty of them, system full of them. Just look around. You might even find some of your own family...

...and some of your own neighborhood, but just look around, you'll find them. And that's the choice and you have to make that mental choice that I am going to be strong for these children mentally. I'm going to support them emotionally. I'm going to support them mentally. I'm going to make sure that they're okay. I'm going to make sure that I consider them before I make a decision or moved, to make sure that they are okay and taking care of, not because I'm trying to replace their father or their mother, but because I choose to do a good thing for these children, and that's a good thing to do. Like I said, some people they don't make that choice. They get selfish, they think about nobody but themselves and what they want, and the hell with everybody else. That's something really important that we all need to get with, really important. You need to make sure your mind is mentally strong enough to deal with the situation that you bought to get into. Now, let's say there is no children involved and it's just you and somebody else, and you know where you got to be mentally strong there too, because these people that you are dealing with may have expectations or they might have a preconceived idea about you, and you're going to have to be mentally strong to show them who you truly are. And you got to be willing to show who you truly are. Now I on me. You just run out and start telling all your business to anybody to come along and ask a question. That means that you have the mental fortitude and the strength to know when to allow information to be released and when not to. But you have to make or that you choosing, that what you do is right for you. Always remember that when it comes down to being a good man or a good woman, or finding a good man or a good woman, it's always about choice. It will always be about choice every second of every moment of your life. You have the option of choice to do the right thing...

...or the wrong thing. It's up to you, and that same option applies to when you want to be a good man or a good woman. You have to make that choice, but you have to know when to make that choice, and sometimes that's going to cause a little mental toughness because you might have to give up some tough love to some people that you really didn't want to do that too, but that just might be the reality of the situation. I'm have to hit you with some tough love and you have to be mentally strong to go ahead and do that tough love, because sometimes you know, you look at somebody that you care about, it you love or it's that another and it's kind of hard to get them tough love, but sometimes that is what is required and you may have to make that tough decision to do that, and that's where that mental toughness come in. That's where that mental strength come in. You got to have at now we're going to move on a little bit more, and you got to have emotional strength, and that's really important because if you not emotionally strong, a lot of this stuff can destroy you. It will damage you, to send you to the nuthouse with a nervous breakdown, and you not emotionally strong. That emotional strength comes in in more ways than you can possibly imagine, because sometimes you might be upset, but you have to be strong in your emotions to have control over them and say I'm going to put this to the side or on the back burner and I'm going to go ahead and do what I need to do and not upset other family members or people around your coworkers, whatever it is it situation you in, you may have to do that and that might be a little bit emotionally taxing, because sometimes you don't have to hold in your own feelings about somebody doing something wrong somebody doing something stupid, but it may require you that you can have to keep your emotions in and check and take care of the situation. In some instances you'll be seen, you might see someone saying something this is just offensive to you. You have to be emotionally strong...

...and suppress that anger in order to have a positive outcome in the end. Too many people allowed emotions to get the better of them and make the decision for them. Whenever you make a decision out of emotion and there's no logic or thought put in behind it before you use that emotion for that, you always end up in the bad, worst situation than you are or you will fuck up a good situation. And that's just the honest guy truth. I'd been down that road a few times myself and I have learned do not make my decisions based off my emotions, unless we bought to get butt naked in the bed and start humping. Then it's all emotion making a decision there and few other things making decisions, but that's another conversation. But just keep that in mind that you have to be emotionally strong, especially if you dealing with somebody who got children. You have to have emotional strength for them children, because it's going to be times where mommy or daddy didn't come pick them up, or they got a bully at school or somebody made them feel bad or somebody hurt their feelings, and they're going to come home or come to you and they're going to be an emotional situation and you got to be emotionally strong to help them through it. Now, I'm not saying replace their parents, I'm just saying you got to be there for them emotionally when they need you to. They going to need you to show them love when they need it, but they also going to need you to show them discipline when needed. And you got to be emotionally strong to not let your emotions get the better of you when you making them decisions, because you don't want to let your emotions get the better you and the kid knock over a bowl of milk or flour something, then your emotions get the better you. Next thing you know, you beating the hell out of them. That's not a situation that requires that type of emotional content. So you got to have that shit in check. Make sure you keep it in check and on the relationship tip alone, you won't want to be emotionally strong. I mean you don't want somebody playing...

...with your emotions and then, you know, play with your head and then kick you to the current. So you got to have that strength to you know, that emotional strength and not let somebody make you believe that they have these certain kind of feelings and emotions for you and then you open yourself up to them and then find out all it was all just an act, it was just playing you. That's where the mental strength come in. The peep that Shit. See what I'm saying? You getting it now. Put all that shit together. All right. And now you have to be spiritually strong, because life will rob the spirit right out of you. One day, you happy person, life is beautiful, everything's great, the future is going to be wonderful, and then the next thing you know, life is shit. It's all going to hell. Ain't no future. This is fucked up and that can happen. I know they some people. You know, it's something chemical and balancing the brain. They call it bipolar disorder. I understand that, believe me. I understand that better than most. But anyway, it's still people who one minute the spirit is up, couple of days later. Spirit is now and for the people around you, especially once again when you dealing with children, you're going to have to be spiritually strong to keep that positive spirit going and keep that bright and sunny disposition and that everything is going to be okay as to to if you want to keep your kids mentality safe, in their emotional stability safe. So you may have to once again suppress some emotions and be spiritually strong and show them that everything is better than what it is. And that takes some work and that takes a serious choice, because you don't have to choose to do that. That's some shit. You just not going to I'll do it anyway am now. You can't do it that way. It'll ca I mean, people will recognize that you just bullshit and I hope that me doing this info on the three pillars of what a good man is, I hope people will pay attention to this and start taking a look, a hard look, at some of the people are sending a life who playing like they're good man. Like I said, a real...

...man can be mistaken for a good man. In a lot of that's happening. Yeah, mistaken a real man for good man. Those are not the same. But the weird thing is a real man is not always a good man, but a good man is always a real man. Yeah, I'Mna let y'all go figure that one out on your own. And the last and final one in the strength category physical strength. Get Your Shit together. I don't care if you doing pilates, yoga, billy blanks, tide blocks, p ninety x, you lifting weights, you Brazilian booty bounce, I don't care what it is you doing. You jogging, you bicycling, you running, get into some physical act activity to improve your physical strength, because there's going to be times when your strength is going to be tested physically. Like I said, if you're dealing with children, if that's not a time when they get a little bit bigger the ass and think they can throw you down and knock you down, you might have to throw a little strength back on them. Let them know old look, I ain't gonna beat on you, but damn I ain't gonna let you beat on me either. So you can get that shit out your head. Then there may be times you might need to defend them against somebody trying to beat the hell out of and that might require physical strength. You might be in a situation yourself will you may need to defend yourself. That requires a little physical strength. So I'm telling y'all, take a karate class, judo, kick boxing, savived Sam Bol, I'm giving shit what it is. Take something, get your shit right, because the confidence that you will build, along with the physical strength that you develop, is going to improve your overall condition all the way around. I promise you it will. I guarantee it will. But just keep that in mind. And the reason why I left the physical at the last is because it's not always requirement to get in the physical confrontation, but sometimes you know you just can't get out of it and some people just determine to cause you physical harm. Now you can either take the ass whooping and live another day to talk about it, or you can defend yourself from taking the ASS whooping,...

...but that's your choice. I'm not recommending physical altercations, but just in case one come up, you want to at least know. If I don't win the fight, at least the other person know they was in a fight. It wasn't the one side to fight. You'll ass going to the hospital to just like I am. That is my whole thing with me. There's no such thing as whooping my ass and walking away. If you woop my ass, that means that you left the hospital before I did, because, damn it, we both going. I guarantee you that we both going to the hospital now. Whether they discharge you first and not is determined. Who wanted to fight, as far as I'm concerned. Oh, they let him leave a couple hours before. Okay, all I well, he can call chalk this up as he won to fight, but I bet you your ass going to be up in in that hospital emergency room, right along next to my ass, if we ain't in the same damn ambulance on the way there. I guarantee you we going to both be in hospital. In the story, that's a matter of developing physical strength, you know, as a martial artist, so I took up a lot of martial arts develop my skills. The discipliney gave me mentally, emotionally spiritually allows me to be who I am today, and it also allows me to know when they get in the physical confrontation and when to just turn around and walk away, because, see, that takes more mental strength, in emotional strength and actually getting into a fight and that's the one thing you got to learn about a good man in the difference between the real man. A good man will use his mental and emotional strength to turn and walk away and say physical violence is not going to solve anything. A real man will stand his ground and whoop Yo ass if he can, or take an ass whooping, because it's going to be one of the two, but he gonna standing. He going to stand his ground, male or female, they gonna stand their ground. But that's not always the best route to take, depending on the situation, and that's where that mental strength come in to evaluate the situation and figure out which one you end and then use that spiritual strength to either resolve the situation or walk away. Always...

...can pick one of the two, but you have a choice. Just make sure you exercise your choice. Well, that is going to do it for me for right now. We going to be back next week. It's probably some more nuggets on this good man guys series, because I want to keep this going. I want to help as many women out here find a good man and I want as many men out here figure out how to be a good man, and hopefully that'll bring some good men and some good women together and have some good children so we can have a good generation of children growing up that's going to look forward to being good people and shepherds of the planet, because we going to need a lot of them in the coming future. Believe me, we gonna need a lot of them. So let's get creative people and let's start creating paradise here on earth for us all. Now, if you get a chance, go to my website, www dotog good gamecom, and you can comment about today's episode or any past episodes. You can also listen to any previous episodes, any the episodes of the first two season. Is All available for you right then and there in the third season, so feel free to come on in and listen anytime you want. Got Some links on the air for some energy back currency and stuff like that. Just few things. I'm going to be putting some more links on there and updating that damn store. I mean the people that they were supposed to been doing my website. That was the best they did. Good thing I didn't pay for that. So I'm working on it myself. It's just taking a little longer than I expected, but it will be improved shortly and if you want to leave a comment about the show today once again, go to www dot og good gamecom, click on the contact us button and then just put in your email and then the common section, leave a comment of what you thought and I'll make sure I read every single one of them. So I am going to end tonight's episode well, you know how in my episodes, like always in my episodes, love, peace in air, Greece.

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