Original Guru of Good Game
Original Guru of Good Game

Episode · 11 months ago

Good Man Guide Pillar #3

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Back with Pillar #3 --- You must be Strong in Mind, Spirit, Emotions, & Body. The Choice to be a Good Man or Woman is always up to you.

Welcome back to another excitingepisode of the original Guru of good game, and I am your host. The originalguru himself, zero game. I want to thank you all for listening and I doappreciate it. I really do have much love for you for showing me so muchlove as you have. I just don't know how to put it in words.I wish I can give you a big hug, because I want to send a hug out toeverybody who is still listening, and I want to send a hug out to those wholisten and decided not to listen anymore. I appreciate you listening foras long as you did, and if you not finding what you listening for outthere please come back, would love to have you listen again now today, wegoin to get into our good man guide series. That's right! The good manguide series and the good man guide is going to upgrade your good man game.Well, now, listen! This can apply to both men and women, but since I'm a man,I'm going to pretty much refer to everything as a good man, but it canapply on the other side to a good woman. So we're going to get back to the threeprinciples or the three pillars or whatever youwant to call him. I really don't care just as long as you get with themeaning and the point that I'm trying to put out here all right so that longas that's happening, I could care less...

...what you call, but just as long as youuse them now we on number three and number three is probably one of themost important ones, but not the most important one. I mean all of these worktogether when you put them all together boom. You got a good man becauseremember being a good man or a good woman, is a choice. Just remember that.So now we on to pillar number, three and pillar number three is straight:You have to be strong, let's get into that a little bit, because I want tomake sure that everybody is clarified. On the definitions of strength that I'mtalking about because there are different levels now the first levelwere going to talk about. Is You got to be mentally strong and you have tochoose that? You want to have a strong mind, because a strong mind willprevent you from getting into bad situations. It will prevent a lot ofbad feelings. Emotions to permeate into the situation that you might be in. Youknow, depending on how it works out whether they got kids,don't have kids and see that S. that's a mental toughness that you're going toneed there to deal with. If you dealing with somebody who already has children,you are have to be mentally strong to know that where your place is in that relationship, you have to be mentally strong to knowthat these are not your children and you're going to have to treat themas if they are your children, and that takes a mental strength, because you're going to have to applycertain aspects of your life to take care of their life. You have to make compromises you'regoing to have to do without because you're going to make sure that they're,okay, see that's a mental choice. You got to choose to do that and believe methere's enough kids out here to tell you that step. Mommy Step Daddy chosenot to do that plenty of EM system full up. Just look around. Youmight even find something young family...

...or some of your own neighborhood, butjust look around you'll find them and that's the choice and you have to makethat mental choice that I am going to be strong for these children mentallyI'm going to support them emotionally, I'm going to support them mentally I'mgoing to make sure that they are okay, I'm going to make sure that I considerthem before I make a decision or move to make sure that they are okay andtaken care of, not because I'm trying to replace theirfather or their mother, but because I choose to do a good thingfor these children and that's a good thing to do like I said some peoplethey don't make that choice. They get selfish. They think about nobody butthemselves and what they want and the hell with everybody else. That's something really important thatwe all need to get with really important. You need to make sure yourmind is mentally strong enough to deal with the situation that you bought toget into now. Let's say there is no children involved, and it's just youand somebody else, and you know well, you got to be mentally strong there too,because these people that you are dealing with may have expectations orthey might have a preconceived idea about you and you're going to have tobe mentally strong to show them who you truly are, and you got to be willing to show whoyou truly are. Now that don't mean you just run out and start telling all yourbusiness to anybody to come along and ask a question. That means that youhave the mental fortitude and the strength to know when to allowinformation to be released and when not to. But you have to make sure that youchoosen that what you do is right, for you always remember that when it comesdown to being a good man or a good woman or finding a good man or a goodwoman, it's always about choice. It will always be about choice. Everysecond of every moment of your life, you have the option of choice: To dothe right thing or the wrong thing.

It's up to you and that same optionapplies to when you want to be a good man or a good woman. You have to makethat choice, but you have to know when to make that choice, and sometimesthat's going to cause a little mental toughness, because you might have togive up some tough love to some people that you really didn't want to do thattoo. But that just might be the reality of the situation. I'M gonna have to hityou with some tough love and you have to be mentally strong to go ahead anddo that tough love, because sometimes you know you look at at somebody thatyou care about it. You love, or it's that and other, and it's kind of hardto give them tough love, but sometimes that is what is required and you mayhave to make that tough decision to do that and that's where that mentalcustis come in. That's where that mental strength come in. You got tohave that now we're going to move on a little bit more and you got to have emotional strength and that's reallyimportant, because if you're not emotionally strong, a lot of the stuffcan destroy you, it will damage you in. I send you to the nut house with anervous breakdown and you not emotionally strong that emotional strength comes in inmore ways than you can possibly imagine, because sometimes you might be upset,but you have to be strong in your emotions that have control over them and say I'm going to put this to theside or on the back burner and I'm going to go ahead and do what I need todo and not upset other family members or people around you, coworkers. Whateverit is situation you in you may have to do that, and that might be a little bitemotionally taxing because sometimes you Gonta have to hold in your ownfeelings about somebody doing something wrong. Somebody doing something stupid, but it may require you that you'regoing to have to keep your motions and check and take care of the situation insome instances. You'll be sick. You might see someone saying something thisjust offensive to you. You have to be...

...emotionally strong and suppress thatanger in order to have a positive outcome. In the end, too, many peopleallow their emotions to get the better of them and make the decision for themwhenever you make a decision out of emotion, and there is no logic orthought put in behind it before you use that emotion. For that, you will alwaysend up in a bad worse situation than you are, or you will fuck up a goodsituation and that's just the honest guy truth. I've been down that road. Afew times myself and I have learned, do not make my decisions based off mymotions. Unless we bought to get butt naked in the bed and start humping,then it's all emotion making the decision there and a few other thingsmaking decisions, but that's another conversation, but just keep that inmind that you have to be emotionally strong, especially if you dealing withsomebody who got children, you have to have emotional strength for them.Children, because it's going to be times where mommy or daddy didn't comepick them up or they got a bully at school or somebody made them feel bador somebody hurt their feelings and they're going to come home or come toyou and they're going to be an emotional situation and you got to beemotionally strong to help them through it. Now I'm not saying replace theirparents, I'm just saying you got to be there for them emotionally when theyneed you to they going need you to show them love when they need it, but theyalso going to need you to show them discipline when need- and you got to beemotionally strong to not to let your emotions get the better of you when youmaking them decisions, because you don't want to let your emotions get thebetter you and the kid knock over a bowl of milk or flour, something thenyour motions get the better you next thing. You know you beating the hellout of them. That's not a situation that requires that type of emotionalcontent. So you got to have that Shit and check. Make sure you keep it incheck on you relationship tip alone, you wouldn't want to be emotionallystrong. I mean you, don't want somebody...

...playing with your emotions and then youknow play with your head and then kick you to the kernel. So you got to havethat strength to you know that emotional strength do not let somebodymake you believe that they have these certain kind of feelings and emotionsfor you, and then you open yourself up to him and then find out, or it was alljust an act. It was just plain: that's where the mental strength come in topeep. That Shit, see I'm saying you getting. It now put all that shittogether. Right and now you have to be spiritually strong, because life willrob the spirit right out of you. One day you happy person, life is beautiful,everything's great, the future is going to be wonderful and then the next thingyou know life is shit. It's all going to hell ain't, no future. This isfucked up, and that can happen. I know they some people, you know it's somechemical and balance in the brain. They call it by polar disorder. I understandthat believe me. I understand that better than most, but anyway it's stillpeople who one minute the spirit is up a couple of days later, Spirit is nowand for the people around you, especially once again when you dealingwith children, you're going to have to be spiritually strong to keep thatpositive spirit going and keep that bright and sunny disposition and thateverything is going to be okay attitude. If you want to keep your kids mentalitysafe in their emotional stability safe, so you may have to once again suppresssome emotions and be spiritually strong and show them that everything is betterthan what it is, and that takes some work, and that takes a serious choice,because you don't have to choose to do that. That's some shit, you just notgoing I'll! Do it anyway, yeah now, you can't do it that way. It'll I meanpeople will recognize that you just bullshit, and I hope that me doing thisinfo on the three pillars of what a good man is. I hope people will payattention to this and start taking a look, a hard look at some of the peoplethat sending their life, who playing...

...like they're a good man like I said, areal man can be mistaken for a good man and a lot of that's happening. Yealmistaken real man for a good man. Those are not the same, but the weird thingis a real man is not always a good man, but a good man is always a real man.Yeah, I'm a let you go figure that when out on young in the last and final onein the strength of category Physical Strength, get your shit together. Idon't care. If you doing pilates Yoga Billy Blanks Tie Blok P. Ninety X, youlifting weights, you, Brazil, on booty bounce, I don't care what it is. You'redoing you jogging you bicycling you running get into some physical activityto improve your physical strength, because there's going to be times whenyour strength is going to be tested physically, like I said, if you'redealing with children, if that's not a time when they get a little bit bigg inthe ass and think they can throw you down and knock you down, you might haveto throw a little strength back on them. Let him know hold up. I ain't going tobeat on you, but them I ain't gonna. Let you beat on me either, so you canget that shit out your head in there may be times you might need to defendthem against somebody trying to beat the hell out of, and that might requirephysical strain. You might be in a situation yourself where you may needto defend yourself. That requires a little physical strength. So I'mtelling you take a karate class judo. Kick Boxing Survived Sam Bowl in giveshit what it is. Take some get your shit right, because the confidence thatyou will build, along with the physical strength that you develop, is going toimprove your overall condition all the way around. I promise you it will. Iguarantee it will, but just keep that in mind and the reason why I left thephysical at the last is because it's not always a requirement to get in aphysical confrontation, but sometimes you know you just can't get out of it,and some people just determine to cause you physical harm. Now you can eithertake the ass whoppin and live another day to talk about it or you can defendyourself from taking a ass Wapin, but...

...that's your choice. I'm notrecommending physical altercations, but just in case one come up. You want toat least know. If I don't win the fight at least the other person know they wasin a fight. It wasn't no one side to fight you ask going to the hospital tojust like I am. That is my whole thing with me. There's no such thing aswiping my ass and walking away. If you whip my ass, that means that you leftthe hospital before I did, because damn it we both going. I guarantee you thatwe both go in to the hospital now, whether they discharge you firstand not, is determined who wanted to fight as far as I'm concerned. Oh, theylet him leave a couple hours before. Okay, all right! Well, he can callchalk this up as he wanted to fight, but I bet you, your ass, going to be upin that hospital emergency room right along next to my ass. If we ain't inthe same damn ambulance on the way there I guarantee you, we gon both bein a hospital in the story. That's a matter of developing physical strengths.You know I was a martial artist, so I took up a lot of martial arts developedmy skills. The discipline I gave me mentally emotionally spiritually allowsme to be who I am today, and it also allows me to know when to get in thephysical confrontation and want to just turn around and walk away because seethat takes more mental strength and emotional strength and actually gettinginto a fight. And that's the one thing you got to learn about a good man inthe difference between real man. A good man will use his mental and emotionalstrength to turn and walk away and say. Physical violence is not going to solveanything. A real man will stand his ground and whoop Yo ass if he can ortaking ass whooping, because it's going to be one of the two, but he gonnastand. He going to stand his ground male or female. They goin to standthere grant, but that's not always the best route to take depending on thesituation, and that's where that mental strength come into evaluate thesituation and figure out which one you in and then use that spiritual strengthto either resolve the situation or walk...

...away. Always can pick one of the two.But you have a choice: Just make sure you exercise your choice. Well, that isgoing to do it for me for right now and we gonna be back next week withprobably some more nuggets on this good man guy series, because I want to keepthis going. I want to help as many women out here find a good man, and Iwant, as many men out here figure out how to be a Cupman and hopefully thatol brings some good men and some good women together and have some goodchildren. So we can have a good generation of children growing up.That's going to look forward to being good people and shepherds of the planetbecause we going to need a lot of them in the coming future. Believe me, wegon need a lot of them, so let's get creative people and, let's startcreating paradise here on Earth Force all now. If you get a chance, go to mywebsite, www, O g, good Gamecock d, You can comment about today's episode orany past episodes. You can also listen to any previous episodes. Any of theepisodes of the first two season is all available for you right then, and therein the third season so feel free to come on in and listen any time. Youwant got some links on there for some energy back currency and stuff, likethat, you know just a few things, I'm going to be putting some more links onthere and updating that damn store. I mean the people that that was supposedto been doing my website. That was the best. They did good thing. I didn't payfor that, so I'm working on it myself is just taking a little longer than Iexpected, but it will be improved shortly and if you want to leave acomment about the show today once again go to W W Wot, O g, good, gamecockclick on to contact us button and then just put in your email and then thecomment section leave a comment of what you thought and make sure I read everysingle one of them, so I am going to end tonight's episode. Well, you knowhow, in my episode, like always in my episodes, love peace and...

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