Original Guru of Good Game
Original Guru of Good Game

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Good man guide - Pillar #2

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This week on the O.G. of Good Game.... Pillar #2 of a Good Man or Woman... The difference between a Good Man and a Real Man. They are not the same, know which is which to spot a Good !!!

And welcome back to another exciting episode of the original Guru of good game, or the og of good game for Short, and I'm your host, the original guru himself, zero game. I want to thank you once again for coming back, for listening, for sticking around and for hanging out with me, and for all those that listened and no longer listen anymore. I once again will thank you for listening as long as you did. I appreciate it. Much love to you and if you're not enjoying what y'all there listening to, come on back. Love to have you listen again and today on this episode of the Og of good game. Once again, go to www dotoge good gamecom. You can like, share, comment, leave a message and I would love to hear from you. Now we are on to number two...

...of the good man guy and this is the second pillar. I'm I don't really like pillar. I mean, whatever y'all want to call it, it's all right with me. I just haven't figured out a good name for it yet. Stage principle whatever, it doesn't make a difference. Is just as long as you get them and you use them. So once a didn't get out of pinning the paper. Write it down, keeping in you wallet, tattooed on your wrist, write it on your forehead so you see it every time you in the mirror. I don't care how you do it, just keep this stuff in my now on this week we are talking about the good man guide and this is the number two pillar, and it is real man versus a good man. Now know people are saying, well, I thought you was talking about a good man, isn't it? Isn't a real man, a good man? No, let's get that established right now. So we only establish that first. A real man. What is the real man?...

Okay, a real man would be a man who would get up every morning like clockwork, go to unfulfilling, backbreaking crap of a job, and we'll do it every day, five, six, seven days a week if necessary. And why does he do that? Because he wants to take care of his family. And a real man will do that. He will put up with the bad job, work conditions, he will put up with the low pay, he will put up with the Asshole boss supervisor that always wants to talk a bunch of smack while you doing all of his work, or her work for that matter. So, like I said, this falls both sides of the coin, male and female. You can be a real man or a real woman and not be a good man or a good woman. So let's get that established right now. Like I was saying, that a real man is the type that will he'll work extra shifts, he'll take on...

...additional hours, he'll do whatever he needs to do in order to make sure that the ones he care about and love is secure, have a place to stay, make sure they have a good food to eat, or just food to eat. kind of hard to get good food at low pay, but he will do his best. He will also make sure them utilities are paid, lights, to gas, water. He will do whatever is needed to make sure that his family is secure and safe. A real man will work extra hours, longer hours, extra shifts, weekends, late nights, just so he can get the money needed to get the gifts for his family for birthdays, holidays, Christmas, special occasions, just so he can see the smile on their face and the joy in their eyes. And he will do that. He will bust his hump just so he can bring a smile to those that he care about. The real man is also the one that'll go...

...into the bathroom and kill a spider. A real man will take the mouse out the trap. Real Man will shovel the snow, he'll cut the grass, he'll take out the garbage. A real man are repaired to sink this clogged up. I'll even coming here with the plunger and unclogged the toilet after you went near and clogged that motherfuck up, because that's what a real man does. He steps up to the plate and does what is needed to be done when it's needed to be done, and that just shows you the length that a real man will go to to look out for his and his own. Now we didn't establish that part. Let's get another thing straight. Just because you're a real man doesn't make you a good man. A real man will jump in front of the bullet for you. A real man will stand up to anybody that tries to harm you, tries to oppress you. A real man will speak truth to those that don't want to hear it. But a real man also can be bullheaded, stubborn, arrogant sometimes self centered about...

...what he needs to get out of this situation. I'm doing all of this stuff for you. I'm paying the bills behind you, clothes, getting your hair done, what do I get? And he'll do things in the sense that he's waiting to get something back. A real man sometimes does not express his emotions or his feelings to his significant other, which leaves a lot of times women confused about where they stand in this relationship. Those are some of the things that a real man is not. They're not all and every man, but you can find bits and pieces and of each one of these things I just said in a real man. You know real man. They're tough, they willing to stand up and battle, they'll fight, they'll defend you, they'll get in confrontations. That's what a real man is. Real women do the same thing too, but that does not make them a good man...

...or a good woman. And the reason why I say that is is because we can look at examples right now so called real men. Let's take our president, for instance. Now he would be looked upon as a real man. He takes care of his bills, he takes care of his family, he does things to make sure that they're okay in this that another. But is he a good person? No, he is not. See, a real man can also be a racist, a Shauvin this a bigot. But in society's framework, a real man takes care of his home and those that dwell in his home. A real man takes care of his family and his intimately close friends. That's what a real man does. Real men tend to be violent when they get in confrontations because they don't normally know how to conversate things and work them out, so they get straight into the violent part. I don't know what to say, I don't know how to rebut your argument,...

...so I'll just cut to the chase and kick you ass. And don't be surprised, real men do get they ass whoop too. That's just a fact. But those falls and the guidelines of a real man and that's why I say it's different than a good man. Now, a good man will do a lot of the things that the real man do. But a good man is not arrogant. A good man is not self centered about what all he get. A good man gets pleasure out of pleasing others, well those that he care about the most. Always remember a good man will not be played for a fool. A good man will do good deeds. But if a good man see you trying to take advantage of his good deeds. A good man or roll. Plain and simple, he will bounce and won't think twice about it. He out, I'm done. Fuck you put me to all this shit. Hell No. So we got to remember those things when we speaking of a good man or reflecting on a good man or trying to...

...determine what a good man is or what a good man isn't those all fall into that play? Because a good man is emotional. A good man respects your emotions. A good man respects your opinions. Matter of fact, a good man looks forward to your opinion and thoughts on things, because a good man wants all the best information that he can get before he makes a decision. Good men tend to make decisions not Necessari therely for themselves, but for everybody that surrounding. In other words, if I'm going to make a decision about doing something, I want to make sure it did it doesn't negatively affect anybody that I care about, that it doesn't negate negatively affect my family and my friends, it doesn't negatively affect my lifestyle or my home life or my job or my business or whatever way I make my money. A good man is not solely bent on financial game, where real man, that's all they...

...want is money. They going after that money one way to other day. Don't get it now, that doesn't necessarily mean they'll get it illegally, but they will make the effort to get it in a way that most people will say, Oh dude, that was kind of grimy. What an illegal but it's kind of grimy the where you did that, and you know he screwed them people over. Blah, Blah Blah. That happens. See, a good man does not need to do that in order to come up. A good man will look at all available options to him and take the ones that are best for him and his situation. A good man always uses logic when he's dealing with other people in other situations and things to make sure he doesn't get emotionally involved and make a bad decision. See, those are just some of the things did a good man versus a real man, and you need to know them, distinctions between the two, because a lot of times you get fool you think a real man is a good man. Man Can be...

...controlling, dominating, arrogant, spiteful, vengeful. Mean a real man maybe a man who would whoop your ass. We're a good man will look at you and say, if you get me to the point of anger, to where I feel like I need to physically harm you, a good man will turn walk out the door and I'm out and be gone and be done with it. I'm not about to be in a relationship where I got to beat a bitch. That's a good man. A good man will stand up for a woman who is in a relationship with a man who will beat the bitch, where real man will see another man beating a bitch ass and be like to thank, got nothing to do with me. What did she do to Piss him off to he got to whoop her ass, and unfortunately that's a mindset that a lot of real men roll it on a daily basis. So you need to be very specific about if you want a real man or a good man, because a real man can sometimes not be a good man,...

...but all good men are real meant. So I just wanted to throw that out there. I want y'all brains to marinate on that for a little while. Maybe see something there you might want to incorporate into your daily thought process, and hopefully that knowledge will bring you some enlightenment and some happiness in some good vibes in your life. Now I'm going to end that right there and then next week on the O g a good game, I'm gonna give you the third pillar, which is a good man or a good woman has to be strong, and we going to get in that, because that's more than just a physical strength. That's mental and emotional and spiritual. They have to be strong on all levels and we going to get deep on that one because that is the one thing that if you looking for in a good man or a good woman, make sure they strong mentally, make sure they capable physically and make sure that they are extremely strong spiritually, because there's some things in...

...this world that will tear your spirit down if you ain't strong, it will tear your mind apart. If you ain't strong, it will fuck you up physically, if you ain't capably strong to withstand it in the recover. Now we don't get deep into that next week on the O G of good game. Once again I want to thank everybody for listening and I give a shout out of love to everybody who's downloaded, who's liked, who shared, who's commented. I want to just give you nothing but love. Thank you so much. I really do appreciate it and this is the thing that keeps me motivated to keep putting out this podcast. And if you want to like, share, comment or listen to some previous episodes, you can go to www dotog good gamecom and on near you can either use the embedded player or right below it, you will see a little buttons to allow you to Click on whatever platform you might like. I would recommend everybody give a try to the...

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