Original Guru of Good Game
Original Guru of Good Game

Episode · 2 years ago

Every Relationship is about Bull Shit ! But not in a Bad Way !!!

ABOUT THIS EPISODE

This episode is about How all Relationships are about Bullshit. Simply put how much of their Bullshit you can deal with.

Hello and welcome to another exciting episode of the original Guru of good game, and I'm your host to zero game. So I like to welcome you back to a another episode and I hope you enjoyed the past episodes and I hope everybody's doing okay with this current lockdown situation. You know, social distancing, staying home, staying out of a public, pray you know, but I just want everybody to be safe and be healthy and be good. So we're not going to do much on that corona thing. Like I said, there's more qualified people who have a better understanding what's going on and who actually have factual medical advice. I recommend you listen to them, because I don't know shit about viruses or how they function or how they spread from person to person, and I'm not about the bullshit you about like I do, or fuck around and start talking about some shit I know nothing about. But I will talk about some shit that I do know about, and today's topic we are going to talk about relationships. Yeah, I know y'all been dying for me to get there and I said I was going to eventually touch on the subject because that's part of the format. It took a while, but we are finally there. So on today's episode, when we talking about relationships, what do we want to determine? So how to have a good one? What's ...

...a good one? Do you know if you in a good relationship or bad relationship? I mean, it's a myriad of questions that could be asked and then there is almost an infinite number of answers that you could probably get. So I'm going to streamline this and I'm going to just give you a good game tip that you can use and it's, you know, future references and it always helps out when you dealing with, you know, relationships. So first things first, let's determine if your relationship is really in that kind of trouble or in that kind of need. So you need to pay attention to the MOO modus operandi of the person that you're in a relationship with. Because remember now, if you in a relationship with somebody and you know, say, the first six months, you could pretty much write down exactly everything you seeing them or know that they're going to do or how they operate. You know, after certain period of time you should know something, probably less if you don't live together, but if you do live together, you should have a really good handle on who you dealing with and how you know they do they things and how they change up and where they go and the way they go, and you know whether they change certain patterns or, you know, activities in order to accommodate, you know, a living situation or relationship type situation. You know it depends on the individual and you need to pay attention to the individual that you dealing with, because a lot of times we don't pay attention to the people that we actually see in front of us and we end up in relationships that probably we shouldn't have been in the first place. Thing you need to do when getting into a relationship at the very beginning, and I must keep saying this because it is really just one of those good game techniques I love to give up, that you need to keep in your repertoire to make sure you bring this out on a regular determine between what you...

...want and what you need in person. Now that also applies to your relations and ship. You need to determine what you want in a relationship and, more importantly, you need to determine what you need in this relationship for it to be a healthy, loving, caring, sharing relationship, with honesty and trust and all that good shit to come along with it in great sex. But if you don't determine what it is you expect out of a relationship or what you want in a relationship, don't get upset if the other motherfucker don't give it to you. You chose not to stay step forward and say look, this is what I expect in a relationship, this is what I expect from my partner, this is the kind of things I expect us to do as a relationship and how it applies to us. But if you don't do that Shit, if you don't speak up, then how the fuck are they supposed to know what the fuck you want? You know, like the old saying go close mouth, don't get fed. If Your Ass Hungry and you walking up and down the street and you don't say nothing to somebody, then guess what, your ass ain't going to eat. But now if you happen to open your mouth and say look, excuse me, I have no money, I'm homeless, I'm hungry. Could you help a brother out with something to eat, six out of ten times people will look out for you because you know most of the people are decent, caring people and they will look out for you, you know. But then you're going to get them times when I'm you know, they're going to walk up, man, fug out, my face, gone somewhere and you're lazy ass up, Blah, blah, blah, Blah Blah, all that dumb shit, but that's life. So back to the relationship thing once again, you need to determine what it is you want from what it is you need, so in that way you can navigate to the right person and, more importantly, the right relationship, because you you could be with the right person but y'all just don't have the...

...right relationship. Then you could be with somebody where the relationship seems right but the person might not be right. So them some things you just need to go over, determine, figure out. Thank for yourself, you know, but definitely make sure that you determine between what you want and what you need, both in a person and in the relationship, and then sit down, be open and honest, talk about it, discuss the situation so you can determine if y'all on the same page or can y'all work to being towards the same page. Here's a little tip that I like to give out once again, some more good game technique, and this is something that you should be using and thinking about when you you know, looking at a person and you determine in whether or not this is somebody I want to get into a long term relationship with, even if it's a short term relationship, you know, you don't expect the last, you know, a year. You know this. We'll see where it goals. Just that and other but here's the main thing. When did DIS applies to all relationships, both male female, whatever your orientation is is irrelevant. This applies to everybody and everything and all relationships, and this is basically what I look forward to when I'm, you know, determined and whether or not I'm, you know, this person is relationship material or not, and usually you can find this out because you need to date. People don't date anymore. It is social media, hookup fuck then try to have a relationship and then wondering why the fucking relationship didn't work out well, because you missed all of the beginning Shit to get you into a relationship. You forgot about trying to learn who the fuck this person is. Then, on top of that you forgot to try to learn about how this person lives. You know, some people we just not compatible, you know.

I mean I you know, it depends on who you dealing with, because some people, you know, their brandom nasty might not be Yo brandom nasty. And I'm not talking sexual, I'm just talking in general, because you know some people, you know, they don't like to clean up, like to leave shit laying around, or I'll get to it when I get to it, if it's necessary, that, that and the other. Then you got some people who they just won't stop fucking cleaning and it's like Shit, all I did was put a little piece of paper on the table from the wrapper of the Candy Bar that Eyet Tore Open, that I took a bite out of, and this fucking ran over here and picked it up and started wiping down the spot where the damn piece of paper was. I mean, that's just a little bit going overboard, you know. But, like I said, you got to determine whether or not y'all compatible, and that's where dating comes in, because then you get to kind of see a person, how they live, what they do, you know, you kind of get a sense of their behaviors, and once you get a kind of an understanding of their behaviors, then you can determine whether or not this person is somebody you want to fuck within a relationship level. So how do you determine that? Once you get to that point, it is very simple, and always keep this in your mind if you trying to get into a relationship, or any kind of relationship, even if it's a fucking friendship. This shit applies this with you always need to keep in mind a relationship, whatever it may be, friendship, sexual, emotional, mental, all boils down to the same thing. How much of the other person's Shit can you put up with? And that's literally it. That's how you have a decent relationship or not, by determining if this person can I put up with a bullshit. And, Fellas I know, y'all been through this quite a few times, you know, and ladies, you'ven been through it too. So don't even...

...try to front like you know you ain't never had no bad relationships. Neither you you fellows. quit front like you ain't never had a bad one, because it always boils down to how much of the other person's bullshit can you put up with? If you can't put up with a bullshit or certain aspects of the bullshit, your relationship will not last. Eventually you're going to get tired of a bullshit and be like get the fuck out, or you're going to pack your Shit and get out. So it all breaks down to that one little simple question you need to ask yourself with anybody that you trying to get into a relationship with, even if you just a sexual relationship, because bullshit comes behind that too. You get my luck. As you know, Y'all just fucking. That's all. We ain't doing this, then nothing else. Now a lot of times, I would say seven out of ten times, one or the other person is going to catch feelings, even though they may not say they catching feelings, but you got to pay attention today actions. If they acting like somebody who caught feelings, oh, they call feelings. They just have been consciously acknowledged to themselves. Yet you know they still in denial. No, I ain't got feeling. Like got feelings, but you acting like somebody who got feelings, then that means you call feelings, whether you want to admit it or not, but you did. That's some bullshit. You might have to deal with. And then there's always you know, if they got children, then you got to deal with the children's parent. You know, if it's a girl, you got to deal with the Baby Daddy. If you are lady and you dealing with a dude, you going to have to deal with the baby Mama, and that might be some bullshit you just ain't ready to deal with. So you need to determine how much you're there bullshit can you deal with, and then you, you know, let them know. Listen, I'm only going to put up with so much of your bullshit. So if you want to keep saying to me and you want to keep tapping this ass, then handle your shit and don't let...

...your shit spill all out of the toilet on my floor. Keep your shit in the toilet and flush appropriately. So you do that, you know you can pretty much avoid a lot of the damn dumb ass shit that goes on when people trying to date or get in a relationship. Just a matter of can I deal with your bullshit or how much are your bullshit I'm willing to put up with to be with your stinking ass, because that's another issue. Are you willing to put up with a bullshit because you want to be with them that badly. Now, if you doing that, I'm a bring back to the old saying. Make sure or this person gives you what you need and not you, you know, saying I'm put up with the bullshit because they got what I want. Determine what you need and what you want and make sure that when you fucking with that person and you sitting here, determine. Can I put up with Joe Bullshit? Is You somebody that's going to give me what I need? If I do, because you can to be pissed off as motherfucker. You know, you put up with a bullshit and they don't give you what you need, then you back to square one. Then you might even be a little bit, you know, dismayed in the whole relationship, dating thing, and then you might determine it. I fucking I'm gonna just do some shit to, you know, drown the feelings, get rid of to pain. That's a bad way to go and it will lead you into doing shit that you didn't mean to do and lead you in the situations that you ain't one to be in. Case and point, it's a whole lot of more of us running around right now going, damn, why do I have a baby with this motherfucker or why did I get pregnant by this motherfucker? That's what happens. Got To work that shit out. So, in closing, we going to always go back to this one little tidbit of information. Make sure you keep this in your brain, think about it whenever you trying to deal with somebody that you want to get in a relationship with, even if it's just sexual, even if it's just a friendship,...

...always remember determine how much of your bullshit can I put up with, because you can get into some bullshit with your friends and then you get to a point where, you know what, I'm tired of your bullshit. You keep getting me caught up in a bunch of crap for some shit you didn't did. I'm running to the rescue, having your back, bailing you out, fighting motherfuckers that I don't even know. I'm just not going to let you get beat down in front of me and it always turns out to Yo Bullshit and I'm tired of putting up with Yo Bullshit. So just remember that. People, when you determine in a relationship, always remember how much you the other person's bullshit can you put up with? So we going to end this episode and I once again thank you for listening in and I'm really loving and all the likes and the comments and the, you know, tweets and everything that you've been sending me in the emails. I really appreciate it and I hope that, you know I keep getting it and get more. Tell your family and your friends to listen to the OG of good game. Always got a good vibe and a good technique for you. So we will let that marinade in for a minute and make sure you come back next week because we got a really good hot topic that we going to spring on your ass next week. I'm not going to tell you what it is because it's a really good one. So I want y'all to be surprised with that one, because is your ear is going to be tingling when you hear you like, Holy Shit, I'm glad I started listening to this. So make sure you come back next week. Tune in, because you're going to want to hear this new topic. It's it's fire. That's all I'm to tell you. It's fire and it's going to have your soul on fire when you hear this shit. So you all enjoy yourself, be safe. Make sure you maintain your social distancing for at least a while. If you feel like you got the covid nineteen quarantine. If you don't, just kind of stay to yourself...

...for a minute, you know, relax, enjoy. Use this time to, you know that you stuck in the house or on lockdown, or whatever it may be you know you dealing with. Use this time to, you know, reflect on who you are and who you want to be. This is a good time to if you think it about starting on your own business, this might be a good time to plan it out, and then, when things start kicking back in, you can get in on the ground floor and make something happening. You never know. So I'm going to say good night, and this is the original guru. A good game, and I'm your host, zero g and once again, love, peace and hair Greece.

In-Stream Audio Search

NEW

Search across all episodes within this podcast

Episodes (60)